Should I be mad...?

Question

Me and my ex-boyfriend are talking again working out our problems. He tells me he loves me and really wants us to be together.

Sunday my so called best friend, him, and me went to the mall. When we were in a store this girl came out of the dressing room and he told her she looked hot but told me I was cute. That kinda hurt my feelings so I walked off. I went to the food court and sat with some friends from work.

I called my so called best friend and him to tell them I was going to leave. She comes to where I am and has a bag with her. He bought her a NEW BABY PHAT OUTFIT! I was like wth because he always talks about how money is tight and his bills and blah blah blah. We date about 8 months and he NEVER bought me an outfit.

So I got mad and he didn't understand why and his excuse was he did it to make ME happy!

I'm even more mad at her because she admitted that she knew she was wrong. I told I feel really mad, betrayed and disrespected. Should I?

Answer 1

Short answer, Yes you should. I'm not sure how you two have defined your relationship, but from the sounds of it your ex doesn't care about making you happy, rather making you jealous.

Hope you find what your looking for.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

What they did was completely unacceptable, especially since your friend KNEW she was wrong, but went ahead with it anyway! I know that everyone makes mistakes, maybe he was trying to impress your friend so that she would go back to you and say what a good guy he is, I don't know. This situation is probably fixable, you just need to sit him down and ask him what he was thinking about when he bought her that outfit. Based on his answer, decide whether or not you really think he's worth getting back together with or not. Good luck to you.

Answer 3

Yes you should feel that way. Your ex should be just that, an ex. Move on it's obvious he hasn't changed. He has feeling for your so called best friend or he wouldn't of did that. If I were you I would let your so called friend and ex go their way. You will be much better without both of them. He will do the same to her and then she will see what it feels like and the pain he is putting you through!

Answer 4

Absolutely. Both people you loved and trusted betrayed you without any regard to your feelings.

I know this is going to sound repetative and annoying, but you need to ditch both of them. If they betray good people like you, they'll sooner or later betray each other and end up miserable and alone. People like that never get far.

Please move on to people who are far more respectful to you than these two people. Everyone, including you, deserves to be around loyal and respectful people.

Answer 5

What an idiot he tells another girl she's hot in front of you and then buys your best friend an outfit. Can we say player. Dump him and then dump your friend for allowing your boyfriend to buy her an outift.

Answer 6

He's your ex-boyfriend right? doesn't sound like you should get back together with him. I wonder how buying your friend an outfit was supposed to make you happy?

Answer 7

To Make YOU Happy?

Yeah Sure What ever....


Honey you need to a new best friend and boyfriend!

Answer 8

I would be mad at her for even accepting something like that from your maybe b/f im sure she knows you guys are trying to work at your relationship so why go and do that, that was mean...

Answer 9

**** yea u should be mad!! this dude is a piece of ****. He deserves to have his cock ripped off and fed to him!! im totally pissed at him for u. if it was possible i would personally beat this bitches *** for u until he cant ever move ever again. Damn *****!! u better gittem 4 i hittem!

Answer 10

hi