i have a boyfriend who says he loves me but almost every night since last month hes been working late at the office i want to believe him but i cant can someone help
2007-04-23 09:32:20 · 26 answers · asked by Lyric H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave him
2007-04-23 09:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are having trust issues with him staying so late at work. Explain this to him and see how he reacts.
If you still have a suspicion, then you or a friend should do some detective work.
"Surprise" him at work with a home prepared dinner in the evening.
See what happens.
You ever see the show Cheaters? Watch the show and get some tips!
2007-04-23 09:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't jump to any conclusions just yet. What I would do if possible is stop by his work one night and bring him some dinner make it yourself now don't go overboard because if you do find out hes cheating on you, you made that dinner for nothing. Just a sandwich or something will do. His favorite fast food. (anything) If he is cheating on you than honey its time to move on from him. It's going to hurt you because I think that cheating is ONE of the worst things someone can do to another. (i say one because there is more)
Remember: No man is worth your tears and the one that is will not make you shed any!!!
Keep your head up darlin'
2007-04-23 10:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by sweetninnocent86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's working late? If you don't trust him and think he's with another girl, bring him dinner one night at the office. Pack his favorite food and bring it out to him. If you find that he's not cheating you, just drop off the food and say "I won't keep you, I know you're working hard" That way he'll just think you're being sweet. And the way home, you'll feel bad for not trusting him. If you caught him cheating, throw the food in his face (and at the girl!)
2007-04-23 09:37:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is possible he's working late. Surprise him with a pizza and have a picnic at the office. Might not work. You might set the place on fire with the candles. Ask what time he thinks he'll be leaving work then meet him there and go out. Study his reaction.
2007-04-23 09:37:29 · answer #5 · answered by justcallmeriss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you recently hear that his job is offering promotions? If so, then maybe he wants a better spot at the office. When he say that he loves you does he just blurt it out, or does he really mean it? These are things to ask yourself before attacking him with questions that could hurt, not help your relationship.
2007-04-23 09:37:10 · answer #6 · answered by Cat DJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh. tough situation. but if u really want 2 find out look for all of the signs... does he talk on the phone more? does he always give u an excuse? if he keeps on staying at the office late set him straight. ask him.
2007-04-23 09:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by vix3n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont brake up with him untill u know for sure so heres a way to find out when he says he's working late go to his work and spy just make sure he doesnt see u that way u will know if he is or isnt cheating on you
2007-04-23 09:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by Ak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves you a lot.
He´s just trying to get the money so he can marry you, buy your things and have an awesome house for the both of you.
Don´t bother him with such silly suspicions.
2007-04-23 09:45:18 · answer #9 · answered by MS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be working. But if he works at Wal-mart and suddenly he is working late, then he probably isn't. Call him on his cell phone every 10 minutes so if he is cheating, you are interupting him.
2007-04-23 09:37:33 · answer #10 · answered by ckudron73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how was the relationship before he started "Working Late". If you guys were fine no fussing and that type of thing you should be fine. But it the opposite i would assume he's cheating
2007-04-23 09:36:30 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋