Am I pretty?

Question

I'm not being conceited but people tell me that I'm pretty. I actually have low self-esteem.

Some girl don't want to be friend's with me because she thinks I'm going to steal her boyfriend. I didn't even know I was that pretty that some girl rejected me as a friend for NOT wanting me to be close to her boyfriend.

But why does her rejection hurting me now?

Answer 1

if she doesn't want to be your friend because she thinks you will steal her boyfriend the girl obviously is insecure herself and in an unstable relationship. you shouldn't even want to be friends with a person like that. consider yourself better off with out her. if you did become friends with her she is the kind of person that would talk behind your back due to jealousy.

Answer 2

Sweetie, you will have to go through this a lot more times before you "GET IT". When other girls don't want you around their boyfriend, it's because they know that you are competition. It's nothing that you've done, that's just the way we are. When we feel that another girl is good enough to take our place, that girl becomes off limits, to us and to our man. we will stop at nothing until that girl understands that we (us & our man) want nothing to do with her. That's why so many girls end up fighting over a boy and don't even know it. The boyfriend will be your friend (speak to you in class, help you with your books, etc.) and the girlfriend will tell you that he thinks your ugly, fat, etc. and when you tell her that he didn't say that when we were in the cafeteria........By then she's already hit you in the face.
so you just be careful around those kind of girls!!!! And as long as you think you're pretty, no one else's opinions count!

Answer 3

You are beautiful. Just because you are a pretty person should'nt be a reason for someone to deny you as a friend!! She is not worth your time if that is the case. As long as you don't have a history of stealing your friends boyfriends than I don't see what the problem is. Some girls are like that because they are gorgeous and have the ability to have any man that they want. Im sorry that she didn't want to be your friend that's insane, but like I said if that was the case than its not even worth it and you are better off without!

Answer 4

I have this couple I like to hang out with and the girl and I are good friends but her boyfriend is flirtatious. I don't flirt with him but now she has backed off from hanging out with me because of him. I think that is very unfair since he's the one who is flirtatious. You can try talking to her and tell her you would not do that to her but some people are insecure and sometimes you end up having to cut your losses. Just feel lucky for being pretty.

Answer 5

lol! same thing happened to me last yr. I went to a new school and no girls would talk to me, and I could only go to the bathroom during a class because at lunch they all tried to beat me up. It can really hurt your self esteem even if boys like you and girls hate you.

Just don't let it break you. Be friends with other people who are kind and don't just want to break you down!

Answer 6

She most likely feels like her boyfriend will go nuts over you and leave her behind. It hurts because the whole idea doesn't make too much sense. You need friends who will look beyond the way you look and see you are beautiful inside and out.

Answer 7

I wouldn't take it in too much. If you show everyone that you think you're pretty then they're not gonna be friends with you for that too. Just enjoy the compliments and the fact that you may be pretty. If she is so worried about you taking her boyfriend then obviously she thinks you are prettier than her. She's just jealous of you. Ignore her. That'll make her mad.

Answer 8

sturdy one Buk. i like to observe those vast puffy clouds and attempt to make issues out of them. LIke a guy with a great nostril or a canine. good now i'd choose to snatch considered one of those tails and permit rain supply way.

Answer 9

You don't want to be friends with someone who doesn't like you for you anyway!I'm sure you are pretty,but it's the person inside that counts!That girl has real problems with insecurity and that's not your problem.It's her lose,not yours:)

Answer 10

Welcome to the world of being pretty..Its the price pretty people pay for being born prettty...I'm 30, and women still act like I want their man when I DONT, and women still try to get me fired from my job. ..Not everyone thinks that--but some people do..Just dont get conceited and think you're all that and you'll be fine.