you see the thing is she does know i exist becasue i talked to her all the time in my physics class last year. she I guess likes me as a friend. I have sent her emails becasue i do not see her much this year. I really want to talk to her but i fear rejection. What should i do? also i never see her alone becasue she is one of the popularest people in the school but yet she is a respecting person who is really smart and i just really like her. also do not say to flirt with her becasue that really is not going to help.
2007-04-23 09:22:51 · 10 answers · asked by Rocketman 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seem that youve talked to her before so thats a start, you more then anybody else knows how she is as person. I think should try to see if she really likes , by maybe trying to see if you guys have friends in common that might, ask around to see if she's into you. I f she is and she's just shy, then go ahead and ask her. Believe me i like this guy and im shy and the only thing i want is for him to come up to me already and ask me out..lol- Good luck, hope this helps!
2007-04-23 09:33:46 · answer #1 · answered by 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long time ago i had a friend who had this problem. It is ok for you to be shy but you never know whether someone likes you back unless you ask. Also remember that the prettiest girls usually get asked out very seldom because most guys are afraid to ask them out for the same reason you are afraid.Go for it and find out she may surprise you. lol
2007-04-23 16:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by jms043 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to first talk to her about more personal things..things that would mean something to her..and if you think that you two have something going on between the both of you then just tell her you like her...if shes any decent, the worst that can happen even if she doesnt like you back will be to say no and she wont tell anyone..but when you tell her you like her dont sound nervous..you have to sound confident in yourself or shes not gonna want to
2007-04-23 16:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...try this go to the next school dance don't ask her and then at a slow song start up a conversation for a minut and once she is about to say somthing interupt her and say"want to dance?" she wont expect it but she will realy want to since at the time she will be thinking your ausone friend and when you ask her she'll be wanting to
2007-04-23 16:29:02 · answer #4 · answered by blah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the advantage her e-mail address, send her a nice e-card and express yourself to her in a appreciate manner. Best Wishes and God Bless!
2007-04-23 16:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Janice 10 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant just tell you to get over your shy-ness because i understand that it doesnt go away with the snap of your fingers..
but if you really like her and you really want to go out with her you should write her a little letter telling her how you feel!
good luck!
2007-04-23 16:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by sexii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out. What is there to be afraid of? If she says no it's no big deal, we've all been turned down. At least you'll know.
2007-04-23 16:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? hhhmmmm you can go up to her ask her to speak to her privatly and tell her You LIKE HER. Just a suggestion.
2007-04-23 16:28:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lrd 666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so im also shy and it kinda depends on age, im 14 and wat i would do (if i was a guy) is take diff routes to classes to see her in the hall just to say hi or make sure you see her in class, um idk just talk to her u never know wat a sinple hi can do! <3 mucho luv!
2007-04-23 16:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DONT NECESSARILY HAVE TO TELL HER YOU LIKE HER.. JUST BE YOURSELF.. KEEP TALKING TO HER.. JUST DONT SEEM OBSESSED OVER HER EITHER. GET TO KNOW HER BETTER AND LET YOURSELF OPEN UP TO HER.. LET HER KNOW SHE CAN TRUST YOU.
2007-04-23 16:28:57 · answer #10 · answered by iVONN3.. DUH! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋