My friend & I hooked up 2 weeks ago. I've had a crush on him for months but that night he seemed into me. After that, we had crazy, stressful exams & didn't really talk much until this past weekend when we all went out. He seemed to pay attn to me on Thurs night. I get shy around guys I like so I don't know if I came across as not interested or if he just isn't because he didn't pay much attn to me Fri night & actually talked to my friend more. He's not the kinda guy that jumps from girl to girl & doesn't really just hook-up. I got drunk & annoyed & started flirting w/ another guy & he seemed to look over in our direction quite a bit, but I don't know what to make of it. Anyways, I like him quite a bit & don't know if I screwed it up by hanging out w/ other guy all night. I just called to ask if he wanted to come get ice cream w/ me to just tell him that I have a crush on him instead of playing stupid games. He didn't pick up and I'm confused about what to think/where to go from here.
2007-04-23 09:22:00 · 12 answers · asked by laughterisnaturescure 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why not try just being your self and see what happens.
Guys like girls to be themselfs. Only time will tell though.
If you like this guy alot then why not invite him to some place to eat and tell him to bring a friend of the same sex and you will do the same and you guys can just hang out and get to know one another as well. hope this helps good luck.
2007-04-23 09:31:22 · answer #1 · answered by angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say not to think too much of him not picking up. He could have just been out or something else of the like.
And I would say that the best thing would be to just come out with it. That way you will both know how you feel for each other and not be fumbling around wondering what is going on.
2007-04-23 16:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by asguard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys normally aren't afraid to say no, they won't give you the run around, and were not as hard (well maybe in that sense) as you think. Just put on a mini-skirt, some nice perfume, look pretty and ask him if he wants to go do something with you tomarrow, the ball is in your court.
2007-04-23 16:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by Adam S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have screwed it up but I'm sure it can be straightened out. You will eventually get hold of him and be able to explain it to him just how you explained it here. It seems that he likes you and he is a nice guy so don't give up just yet. Good Luck!
2007-04-23 16:27:52 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just tell him how you really feel. I would tell him everything, all the stuff from the other night and that you have a crush on him. He may have gotten confused about your signals, but you've still got one more chance to tell him how you feel.
2007-04-23 16:27:55 · answer #5 · answered by wilsonhutchison04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should let him be the one too come too u...and if hes interested he will and if u did mess it up by hanging out with another guy all night then o well just hook up with him
2007-04-23 16:28:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get drunk and play games. Why would you thing that he would find that attractive. The jealously games don't work try being honest it will get you alot further.
2007-04-23 16:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by KAREN P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you screwed up by paying too much attention to this other guy
2007-04-23 16:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel don play games with him playing games just gets people hurt
2007-04-23 16:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by lisa r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel take a risk come out of ur shy shell
2007-04-23 16:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋