I'm 22...i look more like 18 and act like i am 15. i so like this guy and he's 22. i like how he thinks and acts. we have many things in commun. should i "go for it"? or wil age differences have an impact.
if yes, how should i act?
2007-04-23 04:21:04 · 39 answers · asked by Madeline 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry...the guy i like is like 20. my bad
2007-04-23 04:21:46 · update #1
yAY. I DO ACT LIKE 15 SILLY AND REBELIOUS (CYDER IN THE PARK IS NOTHING)you should see me go for the swings and slides in the playground. and i'm shy ...the only part i act 22 in is studies. otherwise i don't have a care in the world:D
2007-04-23 04:31:39 · update #2
ok...more details...we are in the same ngo and work on the same department. and we had this training seminars away from home and on the train i found myself sitting in his lap and dancing at the party and holding hands but i simply froze and didn't do a thing. and he had to leave early due to en exam he had at university...ok...i am messed up :D i know
2007-04-23 05:15:16 · update #3
does anyone have some more ideas? really apart from "ok go for it" or "do not" i do need some action plan:D
thank you.
2007-04-23 06:18:54 · update #4
So, there is no age difference, except for your coquettish games? Have fun and keep playing it up--I seek out women like you--all the fun of dating a teenager, except that she actually has a brain and doesn't say 'like' every other word!
That was a joke, but seriously, be yourself and find someone who likes your being young. I love being with someone who can be serious and real when she needs to be, but can still be fun and carefree most of the time. It's just a great way to live life.
2007-04-23 04:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The looking younger than you are is OK - everyone wants that! I'm not so sure about acting 15 when you're half as old again - what do you do as a 15 year old? Run away giggling when a guy shows you his appendage? Have a crafty cig when you're hanging round the swings at the local park? Play "knock a door run"?
If this guy's only 20, maybe you're made for each other because he sure as heck is likely to be as mature as a 15 year old ... but the difference is, he's likely to have a souped-up boy racer that he could kill someone with.
I think it's time to take stock and grow up a bit
This is your father talking ... well, not your actual father, but someone who is old enough to be ...
2007-04-23 04:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once again I will say, if you want this then what's really holding you back? The most successful people in life fail a lot. IF you're not failing then you're not going to succeed one day. You will only regret the things that you don't do in life and another small note: 2 years is not an age difference chick and you should always act like yourself (it's the best person you can be).
2007-04-23 04:26:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tabatha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 29, but people mistake me for about 24. My fiance is 22, and people mistake him for 24 too lol! I never EVER thought I'd end up with a guy 7 years younger than me, but hey, now I have it makes no difference at all! We never knew each others ages when we first acknowledged interest in one another. As long as you love each other, then age doesn't matter.
2007-04-23 04:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 After the age of 18 there is no age difference. Two years isn't anything. I once had a girlfriend who was 17 years younger than I was...in fact, for 6 short days I was twice her age. We had a good thing together but she had an affair with her boss so I dumped her.
#2 If you feel he's the right one, then he is the right one.
#3 GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!
#4 learn to spell.
2007-04-23 04:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is nothing wrong with a 22 year old woman dating a 20 year old man if both of you are happy with the situation.
2007-04-23 04:24:18 · answer #6 · answered by CountryLady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age is close enough that it should not make any difference. You are both out of your teens and are mature young adults.
The way you should act is be yourself. That is what attracted him to you. If you start trying to act like something you aren't it will probably turn him away from you. No one likes a phony.
2007-04-23 04:27:44 · answer #7 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can date him and have sex with him, but you are too young to have any sort of serious, monogamous relationship with him or anyone. You should be playing the field and having fun, including dating different men. Go out with him for a few drinks, see if he's fun to hang out with, but don't get attached or exclusive. There's plenty of time for that later.
2007-04-23 05:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say your 22 and the guy you like is 22??Ther is no age difference there,what are you on about??????????
Anyway im 29 and my partner is 25,we dont have any problem with the age difference.
2007-04-23 04:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by becx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years isn't a very big age difference. You should go for it and see if it could work out. Act like yourself.
2007-04-23 04:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by ☭ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋