I wanted to see what everyones opinion was as far as this goes!Plus,does it matter if you've known that person for a day,a week,a month,a year,or whatever before the first date takes place on weather you should put out or not?
2007-04-23 04:18:10 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh I know,I just wanted to see everyones opinion on this!
2007-04-23 04:23:11 · update #1
Oh Dear I HAVETA agree with Eviltruitt and WORSE...........I'M A PREACHER'S GRANDAUGHTER and I am not a virgin BUT I DO know you should AT LEAST test drive the car befor you buy it!!!
2007-04-23 05:03:36 · update #2
If there is chemistry and mutual attraction, then why wouldn't be ok to have sex on the first date? I think it's ok, and have done it myself. I have never thought less of a woman, in fact it shows me that she's comfortable with her sexuality and that she likes to have sex for enjoyment, which are important to me.
Oh, to "oh dear", you aksed for it, so here it is. Yes, you are a prude, and you're living in a bygone era. How can anyone possibly marry someone unless they have had time to experiment with their sexuality and learn about what they like by having sex with various people? Saving yourself ffor marriage is a crazy notion, and one that doesn't work in this day and age.
2007-04-23 04:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by eviltruitt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
once you're an grownup, intercourse on the 1st date isn't neccesarily a bad element, in spite of the undeniable fact that it would make you question no rely if this female is one which you will set up a relationship with. in case you're actually not waiting for a relationship, then some one evening stands are innocuous while the final precautions are taken. merely know that intercourse on the 1st date could be a bad element if it happens too plenty. nevertheless, the lady would be trouble-free, in spite of the undeniable fact that it incredibly is often obtainable that she merely incredibly likes you. do merely not enable intercourse blind you from what's somewhat happening. Use common sense and morals.
2016-11-26 22:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by mondoza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to have sex on the first date if sex is what you are mainly concern about. Now if you want to have a long relationship with the other person then sex on the first date is out of the question. A peck on the cheek at the end of the date is all that is permitted.
2007-04-23 05:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Donq 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is never ok to have sex on a first date. It doesn't matter how long you have known that person for. A first date should be romantic, simple.
Unless you wanna be seen as 'loose' or a jerk, then go ahead and have sex on the first date.
2007-04-23 04:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by Grace 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends who your first date is----If I went out on a date with my favorite wrestler for the first time. I wouldn't waste it. That might be my only chance I ever get.
Way to Go Kane!!!!
P.S. Won't you post this on the wrestling section too. See what kind of answers you might get from the experts.
2007-04-23 05:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Kane 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I only did this once in my life and we became good lovers for a number of months. We became dance partners and then our relationship became platonic and we were good, closer friends than when we had been as lovers. In the conundrum of life, I lost track of her, but the sweetness of the relationship lasts to his day.
2007-04-23 04:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i think if you did and did not know the person at all then you are a hoe but if you have known them for likea month or more it might be ok but you might still get called a hoe i would just advise not sleeping with someone on a first date
2007-04-23 04:23:50 · answer #7 · answered by tabbycat 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Agree with the first person to answer
2007-04-23 04:23:01 · answer #8 · answered by kc 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you want him to not value you at all, and you don't value yourself, then sure, put out on the first date. If you want a sex-only thing then put out. If you want a relationship, hold off.
2007-04-23 04:23:10 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's okay to have sex before the 1st date, if that's what you want. No one decides when you can and should have sex but you.
2007-04-23 04:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋