my gf wants to have a one night stand with others and wants me to accept her back saying she loves me and never wants to leave me for good...what should i do?
2007-04-23 03:23:13 · 27 answers · asked by kiks c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her, that is trashy that she would want to do that to you and you can find better. Ask her if she wants you to go out and do the same to gain "expereience" and ask her how it feels. I think she doesnt seem like the type of girl hat you want to get into a long term relationship with, also if you say no then you would need to be worried about her doing it behind you bakc and cheating on you. Either way she is cheating she just want you to be okay with it.
2007-04-23 03:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You Mrried That Girls
Give Divorce To Her
I think You Are Not Satified Her,
And You may get Aids,If You Said Yes,
And She May Not Come back To You,
If You Said No,Infront Of You She Will Tell Ok,
When She Is Alone Or Errected When You Are Not Infront Of Her,
She Will Definitly Look FOr Other Guys
If You Not Married That Gilr,Please Drop Your Marrige Idea there Itself And Use That Girl And Through Her TO Dustbin,
If You Really Love That Girl,And You May Not Live Without Her,
You Are Not Satisified Her,Go For Adult Toys,
I Think Your Question Is Wrong,And In Almost Cases,A Girl Will Not Ask This To Anybody
2007-04-24 01:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by virgin_1988 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dump her. She wants to have her cake and eat it, too, dude! Nobobdy deserves that!! You could get an STD if she's not careful or she could get knocked up. You deserve a girl who's only going to be with you and not running around town being a *****. Gross. Don't be a chump!! You will so lose respect from others and your self esteem will go down and you guys will fight about it anyway, even if you say "Sure, honey, go out and screw whoever you want! I'll be here waiting for you." What a freaking b*t**. I can't believe she even asked you to let her do that!!!
2007-04-23 10:29:11 · answer #3 · answered by gidget 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seems very hypothetical question. Anyway my answer will be a big NO. One positive possibility could be that your girl friend is taking your test. She wants to see whether you allow her to go with other men. You don't have to do it otherwise she will think that it doesn't matter to you even if she sleeps with some one as long you are getting chance to sleep with her. She will think that you are treating her as sex object.
If she really means it then you have only one choice to leave her. If she thinks you are not experienced enough she should go with experienced people. I don't think it's that difficult to satisfy a man. We are not women. If she just let you do what you want to do you will be millions time more than satisfied. If she really loves you she should learn how to cook, how to dress, how to seduce you etc. to make you really happy.
2007-04-23 13:20:21 · answer #4 · answered by pushker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but a girl who loves you doesnt want to experience anyone else but you. If she really loves you like she says she does, she wouldnt be tryin to see what other guys have to offer her. Because that just lets you know that she feels that she is setteling.
It will be hard to leave her at first. But thats the hardest thing that you will ever do in your relationship. From then on, it only gets easier. Because you will find the right person.
The right person is not someone who wants to sleep with others guys, its someone who appreciates being with you, and doesnt want anyone elses hand touching them but yours. Its someone who feels safe and loved by being with you.
And she is just letting you know that she doesnt feel that with you, So she feels that she has to go and look for it, and if she doesnt find it, she will always have you.
Just drop her....
2007-04-23 10:32:57 · answer #5 · answered by gurl20073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a load of crap. How is her having sex gonna make her better with you? If she just wants to try out a couple of others before you guys get real serious, she has a commitment issue. I say tell her to be a **** somewhere else.
2007-04-23 10:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't fall for that. That's just an excuse for her to sleep around. She can gain more experience with you! OMG...I can't believe she said that!
Don't fall for it!! Tell her to go ahead and don't come back. She'll be doing you a favor anyway. You deserve better.
2007-04-23 10:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best way to tell her have expereience always . Stay away from her Respect of your is at stake . Her respect for you is 0
2007-04-23 10:40:12 · answer #8 · answered by Rajesh c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her.
Can you imagine if you said Ok and she came back to you with a great case of herpes.
She sounds like a total slag.
2007-04-23 10:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Mimi 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i told my bf that, but because i am a virgin and he is not, so i said that then we would have the same level of experience..
He got kinda jealouse.. i would never do it.. and you should let he either, it will be the end of you guys..
good luck
2007-04-23 14:02:13 · answer #10 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋