I dont understand the rules of sex!!!?

Question

I have a question, I havent had sex yet ever in my life. It's not a dicussion, but it just happened that way. I've gone out with guys left and right..made out with guys from left to right..(not whorish)..but hell Im young..but it never exceeded to the point of oh let's do it. I mean I wanted to but they never approached the idea..but I've known fat non attractive females you can have sex everyday..and be ooO..I got laid..and Im like wtf. How can they get laid like that..and I can't even get to the level. People do say they look up to me for being a virgin at 21..but they dont understand it's my not choice it just ends up this way. How can non attractive fat people have sex..and I can't. Im a pretty girl, who has personality..and has a nice body. What's the problem..can someone explain..Me= No sex, but Fat non attractive = All the sex in the world..lol

Answer 1

People are insecure, doh. Sorry its the truth, fat unattractive girls just spell easy lay. Skinny attractive girls means need to work harder, weres that fat girl at again? On top of that, don't get caught up in this idea of causal sex, its bs. Sex is like anything, your going to feel some sort of opionin about it and sinces its sex and so close to you in action, your going to have intense feelings about it. So some good rules of thumb, don't have sex with someone you wouldn't tell people about. Friends do make great lovers. That is what most guys are after;sex. And please be safe! O yea life and relationships are more complicated then anyone can put into words, so if someone thinks they know the easy way, or make it sound o so easy, don't trust them..... and romance is pretty much dead... but deep meaningful relationship are not, you just have to take the time to let them grow... but the whole idea behind finding that special someone and falling madly in love with them and everything is fine, doesn't. Anything that good takes blood, sweet, and tears. But if the individual your with doesn't want to grow, leave them be.... thats what destroies relationship, not sex.....