I have 3 questions that are bugging me.
1. My boyfriend left for 3 months at AIT. We talked for the first time yesterday in 3 months. Now he says, he has another month. Why is that? Should'nt he have known before he even got there?
2. He also said... he went over seas, to Germany for a month. For some type of mission. How can that be when he's not finished AIT?
3. This one is sorta silly. I know people cheat - anywhere. He told me he hasnt. But how can I be so sure, any clues?
Next time I talk to him, should I ask him this? I dont like to bug him about this stuff.
2007-04-23 01:36:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
um..my advice. bug him.
1. Its very possible that he has another month added to his time. My husband has been at his AIT for 5 months and he was supposed to be there for like..3 or 4. He started class VERY late. he isn't going to be done until july 16th. So..obviously..they added time onto his. haha BUT.....even before i moved here to live with him...he called me constantly. If he has a cell phone.he should be able to call you like....every few hours. especially at night time. they get released usually (depending on what "shift" hes on for school) at about 7ish and then bed check isn't until like..9 or 10.
2. He didn't go overseas. ask him why he lied to you about it and why he felt the need to tell you he did. theres no way they would send someone overseas that isn't done with their training. thats just stupid. haha they can go to a different duty station or something maybe..but ive never even heard of that.. so.......he lied.
3. If hes lying to you already...then i dunno how much i would trust him. i would re-evaluate your relationship. The only way to know whats really going on is to talk to him about it.
Yeah...in other words...bug him. bug the crap outta him.
2007-04-23 03:30:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hun,
I hate to tell you this along with the other people who answered your Questions that you are being played for a fool (which i don't think you are). Never does anyone who is at AIT go on an overseas mission they need orders etc which they can not get until they have completed AIT. I would go with your own judgement do you think he is cheating?? like the gentleman said please don't be another marriage stat go with your gut feeling. Now the fact that u have only spoken for the first time in 3 mths is amazing but please Hun move on there are plenty of good guys out there weather they are in the military or not.
think of yourself in this situation and yes you have a right to bug him about it. If he cared he would not get offended but would reassure you that he is not cheating.
2007-04-23 02:05:41 · answer #2 · answered by british gurly 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Darlin, you are being played.
1. Entirely possible that he got held back for some reason (full class, failed a test, injury, discipline issue, etc...).
2. No. If he hadn't finished AIT, then he won't be going on any "missions." He doesn't even know his job yet.
3. Yes, it is very possible that he is cheating. I hope NOT for your sake, but any guy who doesn't call his girlfriend AT ALL during AIT and then disappears for a month on a "mission" is shadey.
*Good luck with the whole thing and PLEASE don't become an Enlisted Marriage Statistic.
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2016-09-05 20:58:11 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. entirely possible.. he could have been set back either due to failing a test or being ill/injured. another possibility is th eclass he was originall schedukled for was full, or started on a different date.
2. probably a load of hooey.
3. you either trust him, or you don't. what surprises me is you say you haven't communicated at all in the last 3 months.. they DO have access to phones and internet while at AIT. In fcat mnay o fthem can get it in their barracks rooms.
2007-04-23 01:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Mrsjvb 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
something is not sounding right here , since those in AIT have access to phones , when off duty , they are no in basic training
also it is possible that he had some training over seas but VERY VERY DOUBTFUL normally a non mos qualified soldier would not be sent over seas
as for cheating , who knows
2007-04-23 01:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Bucksnort 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋