a charming prince come to you, fall in love with you like cinderella?snow white?sleepy beauty?
da....da...da...and live together happily ever after?!
2007-04-22 19:40:02 · 30 answers · asked by moonrider 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Absolutely.... But first lets ask ourselves; What is a fairy tale... is it Prince charming or Cinderella for that matter? YOU make your fairy tale... Its never the same and never should be, that is why each and every one of us is unique... So just go do it... Live your fairy tale, live happily ever after... Its your choice and remember that you are someones fairy tale.
2007-04-29 15:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by rob3437 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No. It doesn't exactly happen like that.
It's more like some guy falls for you & he's pretty cute & smart & charming & you feel a connection & he's madly in love with you & you with him but then life happens & little things happen to get on each other's nerves & he does things to infuriate you sometimes & you fight & break up & you cry & then you reconcile because he is pretty wonderful & you are in love & life can be beautiful, more extraordinary than ever but it's so hard to make it work because no one & nothing is perfect & you were raised on fairytales & you want life to be like that but it falls short & there is no white horse, no knight in shining armour, no charming prince. There is no happily ever after. There is only working at it one day at a time. Love is a verb. It is something you do. Even when it's not easy. Even when he leaves the toilet seat up. Even when he can be cold & thoughtless. No one is perfect. You love him at his best & accept him at his worst & commit to it because it's worth it. Or you let go & decide it's not worth it.
Love yourself. Be your own charming prince. Rescue yourself. Don't wait for a man to sweep you off your feet. Keep your feet firmly planted on the ground. Be strong & happy on your own. If a wonderful guy comes along, great & if he doesn't, fine. Don't settle. & remember that even when you meet Mr. Wonderful, "the One", your soulmate, he doesn't walk on water. He's going to screw up (so will you). There will be bad days. There will be days you want to scream & throw him out & never see his stupid face again & there will be days you want to laugh & throw your arms around him & wake up next to him and his beautiful face & dark hair & stunning blue eyes everyday for the rest of your life.
No one snores in the fairytales. No one is human. They end it "happily ever after" to gloss over the inevitable reality that follows. No one lives happily ever after. Happy is a choice. Sometimes it's hard hard work.
No fairytales never come true. Beware of the fairytale. It's an illusion. Don't build castles in the sand that can be washed away. Build a real house, brick by brick, though it takes patience & it may not quite be the castle of your dreams. You need a solid foundation.
That's why they say "for better or for worse" -- you have to be prepared for both...
2007-04-22 21:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If one abides imagination and the fruit of this is truth-bearing and within best-laid plans for the individuals involved and above all, for the best of the universes above, below, and lateral, then indeed these can come to be for some measure of time.
As to the " ever after " portion of your question, well, the answer is both a yes and a no, is all that can be said about it. For one's happiness rests with a certain state of conscousness now, but which shall surely evolve as will the consciousness of your partner heart grow as well.
The universes are nothing if not dynamic and moving onward, expanding and ascending, wefting and warping; now pausing, now regressing, shifting from one vector and back again to the preceding, now blitzing off toward still the next points of necessities and inevitabilities.
Fairy tales are real, for they are one of a myriad of siblings whose parent is but Imagination Itself, the language of the Soul, which entity has no bounds or limits.
2007-04-30 13:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The answer to this question is decided by the seeking individual him/herself. If one believes that this man is "prince charming" then he is that man. If you think yourself to be "under the radar" open to being discovered like cinderella or lying dormit like sleeping beauty waiting for this magical person to enter your life than yes, it may work out in fairy tale fashion. Perception is reality and men and women alike seem to be subject to the timing issue. It can turn out victoriously with bugles and red carpets laid before us to live together happily ever after, or on our knees beaten by someone else crying with tears of sorrow.
2007-04-22 20:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Travis 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My prince charming did come and sweep me off my feet.
There are ups and downs in life, u have to take whats good and keep going, thats the only way to live happily ever after!
2007-04-29 03:46:49 · answer #5 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not likely ones. Do you understand the percentages of an somewhat prince coming to marry you? Princes in no way used to additionally be allowed to marry commoners. there isn't any such element as hearth respiration dragons and wicked witches with somewhat powers and speaking animals. Fairy memories are unrealistic. this is unhappy in spite of the incontrovertible fact that this is actual. additionally lots of the time it takes dealing with some boys to locate a reliable one ;)
2016-12-10 09:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ,I do not believe in fairy tales. I do believe that if you put yourself out there in a good way, you will have a better chance at meeting somebody who is highly compatible with you. EXAMPLE :you sit at home and play on the internet all day/you find a crazy married 45 year old freak that is into bondage.....you go out with friends to the bar/you meet your one night stand.....you see a cute guy while dining out and give him your number/he calls you back and you guys go out to dinner.Either way it is a chance.You cant sit around waiting for fairy tales to happen , you have to get out there and make your own story happen through trial and error.
2007-04-30 11:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Isabele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They will, but not like you are thinking now. These are age old stories to make you put on your thinking cap. Cinderella is one of the oldest stories told. Most people think they are for kids now. You can get a book called, "The Lost Language of Symbolisim" Harold Bayley. There are two Volumes, 2nd has an index for both volumes. But now you can get it in one book if you care to look into these stories.
2007-04-22 20:07:05 · answer #8 · answered by rrrjr60 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can allow anything you wish to come to pass. But you have to want it and work at it. You want a prince charming to come to you then only date men of good character. You want to meet a beautiful woman and fall in love then only search for those that you see as true beauty. If you want a narcoleptic chic then go for it. :). Point being is anything is possible you just need to want it.
2007-04-22 19:46:37 · answer #9 · answered by questionallthings 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, even if that happened. Think about this: why do the fairy tales always END at the wedding?? Do you ever wonder what happens after the wedding? Do you really believe that they live happily ever after?? Cause I don't!!
They have to work out their problems the same way you & I do in our marriages.
2007-04-30 02:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by ilovepoison2820 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋