scared of life?!?

Question

my parents are not going to pay for college and I don't really want to go anyway...I want to be a photographer...my boyfriend is in the army and we just got married...I just got a job for minimum wage...he wants me to put off my photography career and education and work at this job for 5 or 6 years...by then I wanted to be a photographer and start having kids....what should I do? I am so confused. I just wanna die sometimes I feel like I am going to be stuck in this job for years maybe forever..I am scared, tired, and at rockbottom what should I do?

Answer 1

Although you say you don't want to go to college, a higher education would be a pretty good hedge against a bleak future in minimum wage jobs.

You don't have to go to be a business major - there are several art colleges where you could study photography, and learn the skills you'll need to pursue your dream.

Even regular colleges have art and photography programs.

How would you pay for this? Well, colleges hire people, lots of people, and they offer free tuition as one of the perks. If you wanted, you could look into applying for a job at one of the local universities, get a nice office job, and take photography/art classes at night to prepare yourself for your future.

Good luck to you

Answer 2

Life is what you want it to be.
You need to decide on what is best for you and if you husband is support he will facilitate you chasing your dream and true calling.
You are no longer your parents responsibility.
So please dont ever put off education try to work and study
As it relates to kids, please ensure you are in position to take care of them before having them. They deserve a good life.

Go after your dream and remember that if continue to do what you have always done you will always get what you have always gotten.

Answer 3

Follow your dream..don't let your boyfriend decide your career for you. You have a mind of your own now use it girlfriend:)