man & wife seperate after 7 yrs. marriage.wife wants divorce husband wants wife back. wife says i dont love u,get a girlfriend repeately. wife sleeps w/ another man,husband sleeps w/ another woman
2007-04-22 16:32:39 · 23 answers · asked by theresa w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If they are getting divorce, who cares...
2007-04-22 16:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No one is EVER justified in cheating. When you marry, you make a PROMISE to stick it out, for better or worse and to remain faithful. Regardless of what your spouse does, retalitory sex is NEVER justified.
If the husband REALLY wanted the wife back, he had a funny way of showing it by sleeping with another woman. Any chance he had at getting his wife back is now GONE.
So, unless there is some MASSIVE amounts of forgiveness here, he's pretty much out of the picture.
Get the divorce, get some counseling and get on with life. Don't make the same stupid mistake again.
2007-04-22 16:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it is very disrespectful! First off why is she texting her boss? Hmm, seems like you may want to keep an eye open for this. The text thing was how my husband got caught messing around too. And if they are just joking around with each other why don't they do that in front of you? My ex-best friend and husband both used that it was joke excuse too. Hey you know what... it wasn't a joke though.
2016-05-21 04:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither is justified, they both promised to be faithful to one another. The promise applies to both husband and wife equally. This couple should probably just go ahead and get divorced, they are making a mockery of marriage.
2007-04-22 16:37:44 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of them has a right to say anything because they are not together anymore. They should get a divorce before they start sleeping around.
2007-04-22 17:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither are justified in cheating. They should have waited until the divorce was final.
2007-04-22 16:44:24 · answer #6 · answered by Maiden Fair 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheating. There are no winners. No one is justified to commit adultery. You could play echos forever and live a life of pure hell. When you cheat once, it usually makes it easier to cheat again.
2007-04-22 16:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Aggie P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
According to the scripture (Holy Bible), they are both committing adultery. According to the old testament, they are both guilty. Neither is more justified.
For those who are not Christian, at least wait until after the divorce.
2007-04-22 16:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by Cindy H 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cheating is always wrong so. I don't think the husband should want her back, but I don't know why they split up.
2007-04-22 17:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is NO JUSTIFICATION for cheating. What is it about cheaters that they do not get this? If you have issues in a relationship you have to work them out and if you can;t you have to leave. That is what a committment is all about!
2007-04-22 17:31:11 · answer #10 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither is justified both are cheating on each other.
Ain't right, no way, no how
2007-04-22 16:56:30 · answer #11 · answered by justgetitright 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋