Have you ever think about cheat on the person you love in a given circumstance? a trip? a work? with a beautiful/handsome mate you meet daily?
2007-04-22 15:30:08 · 10 answers · asked by MS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never......physical beauty has never been enough to get me interested. a beautiful personality is what gets me interested and the physical beauty is just a bonus.
I am 53 and have never cheated with another man, even in my younger days when I was dating. In all my relationships, I have recognised the problems and tried to work them out, and if that was impossible then I would end the relationship. I have never used the arms of someone else to "fix" a problem.
So, in answer to your question, if I desired someone else other than my partner, I would know the "marriage" was in trouble and would either work on it or end it.
2007-04-22 15:47:40 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My fiance just cheated and I would not think of it. I know how much it hurts. Circumstances can be walked away from, that is what you do when you are in love and committed. If your relationship is stale, you do things to make it better. If you have issues you discuss them. There is no good reason to cheat. Beautiful or handsome temptations are nothing more than surface. After a while, ones beauty can dim if they become ugly on the inside. The grass is not greener elsewhere.
2007-04-22 15:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me and my husband, there would be absolutely nothing. We spend every day loving the fact that we met and are together. Cheating isn't an option. Respect in a marriage is so important. If a fleeting moment is so much more important than there is no marriage, no faith, no trust, no respect. I couldn't bear to put anyone or anything more important than my husband and he feels the same. Life is too short and a good relationship is hard to find.
2007-04-22 15:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Temptation is only for those who are weak and use the WORD love as some kinda crutch for their insecurities. If you cheat, no matter what kinda excuse you use, then you're not really in love. You just fit in with the other 65% of men who hurt the women who truly devote their hearts to them. Quit looking for someone to help you feel better about something you clearly know would be wrong, ask your wife instead. She can tell you first what time to pack your bags!!!
2007-04-22 15:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would never in my life cheat on my lover. I just love him too much! Aside from that it is a total conscience thing, I just couldn't live with my self. DON'T CHEAT!!! If you feel the need to..get out of the relationship, its that simple!
2007-04-22 15:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by libbylou02 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never cheat. If I'm that unhappy, then I get out of the relationship. Cheating is the coward's way of dealing with problems and never solves anything. If anything, it creates more issues. Who needs that?
Never think you won't get caught because you will.
2007-04-22 15:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self control is something most people have. So think about it all you want--but too much and it becomes obsessive and unhealthy.
It always looks greener on the other side of the fence--but in actuality--you will almost always be disappointed, and look back with regret...
2007-04-22 15:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Missy Lyons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have already been shceated on by one of the two then that would make you want to betray them as well I don't think anyone else would think differently..why would you if everything was great as it is..unless being cheated on
2007-04-22 15:36:11 · answer #8 · answered by Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing would or you don't need to be married to that person or anyone else for that matter.
2007-04-22 15:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by Tina L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing or no one, ever. I am one that takes those vows very seriously.
2007-04-22 15:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by mcbobly2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋