everytime i meet a girl they automatically dont like me, i dont even talk to them and i see them looking at me rude or something like that.......all the guys say itz because im prettier then them, but i dont know....i know alot of pretty girls with alot of girl friends... so whats the problem?
2007-04-22 15:29:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
im not rude, and i do smile at them lol
2007-04-22 15:34:15 · update #1
YEA happens to me too, and no im not saying im the hottest thing around...just ignore them, hopefully ulll find someone thats a true friend...let them hate on ur beautiful face =)
2007-04-22 17:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by tf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body language says a lot, that we don't even know we are saying. So do tone of voice and facial expression. All together, they add up to "attitude".
So, think about what your body movements, facial expressions and tone of voice are saying. Are you angry inside, (even if it's not at them) and it might be showing? Do you think you are better than they are? Are you afraid they will reject you, so you act like you don't care?
Ask adults you trust for honest feedback on this, and if you can borrow a video camera, get someone to record you moving and talking. Maybe when you watch the tape, you'll get some clues to what you're giving off.
To make a pleasant impression when you meet someone, face them, make eye contact, smile nicely, keep your body still and relaxed, listen to what they are saying and respond with a question or comment about their expereince, not a story about you.
Hope this helps.
2007-04-22 22:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mother Amethyst 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. It might not be only what you look like but that the girls feel threatened by you for some reason. I get along alot better with guys although I do have some really good girl friends.Women can be really competitive,jealous and gossipy. Don't worry though,just keep trying and I am sure you will find some really nice friends.
2007-04-22 22:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lori O 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you got a good personality? Are you friends with people other than guys? Do you talk rude? Are you stuck up cause you're pretty. ?
2007-04-22 22:39:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Instantkarma♥♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Not many girls like me either. It could be for any number of reasons but just ignore it and be polite anyway.
2007-04-22 22:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by yogibean32 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you give out the wrong signals? I know some of the nicest people that give off dirty looks and have no idea they are even doing it! Give them a smile...
2007-04-22 22:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Lady in Red 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are jealous hun. They did it to me too. Then lately a guy came up to me and asked me was I married. Because I was the best looking girl in the school and they called me names because they were jealous.
2007-04-22 22:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by gettysdeemer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes Physicall apprearence may tell totaly diffrent about u.. try chaging it
2007-04-22 22:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THEY are just bitches-you don't want them to be your friend anyway!! find people who like you for you they probably are just jealous and bitches move on there are plenty more where they came from ...
2007-04-22 23:00:25 · answer #9 · answered by sweetsmiles69@jennieask-me 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you b*tchy? Are you rude and maybe don't know it? Ask someone you trust
2007-04-22 22:31:51 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋