Girls... What r some good things 2 ask a guy when u 1st start dating other then the basic questions?

Question

I consider, where does he like to go? what does he like to do? Hobbies, Interests, work, School, etc. the basic questions.

Answer 1

Ask him the same things as if you were interviewing him for a job, because marriage is that important. What is important to you? Some things are basic. Does he share the same interests in building a life together, what does he think about children, what are his religious beliefs, do you have the same goals in life? Watch him while you are dating. Does he have control issues, does he have anger problems? How does he treat you? Does he respect you, give your input some merit, can you sit down and talk without concerns? Let's put aside the obvious like drug or alchohol problems....those are definite red flags. Love is about all of this not just about your hormones. If you have checked off all these things and he is a winner you have so much better of a chance to make it through all that marriage is going to challenge you on. Do your homework. This is your life partner you are looking at.

Answer 2

i dont know but there was thsi book i saw once at abook store and never saw again its something about like 100 questoins to ask a man before u get marreid and there was another one it was liek " signs of an abusive hsuband " ( in a list form ) both were in the relatoinship section of the psycholog/self help shelf at the barnes and nobesl here . i guessed at the names of the books so they might have diffrent titlies. anyway u just reminded me that i need to come up with money for these books as well when im ready 2 start looking.. good luck girl !

Answer 3

ask him things that actually compliment what you are looking for in a guy, does he want kids? is he looking to settle down? but me personaly i just let the basics do the talking, if a subject comes up go with it to see his answer, otherwise just see if the chemistry is there and dose he seem like someone easy to talk to and fun to be around , dont stress about other things yet save that for if you actually see the date going somewheres, cause whatever ? you ask be prepared he might just ask you the same one back!!!

Answer 4

ask him about his family, ask him his views on poltical issues ask him if he hit the mega lottery what would he do with the money this question can give you insight on the type of person he is. ask him what kind of foods he likes.

Answer 5

What is your religious background? Do you know God? Are you saved? Do you attend church? Are you active in the church?