long story short, we dated a long time ago, he broke up with me for another girl, than when it didn't work out with her came crawling back. i kinda swore to myself i would never date him again, becuase i wanted to show him that i deserve respect. however, lately thats most of the reason why I'm not dating him. he's really cleaned up his act and is treating me like i deserve, and i feel like i have feelings for him a little bit, but i dont know if i really want to date him or if i just want to like him
help?
2007-04-22 10:03:03 · 8 answers · asked by KB 4 in Education & Reference ➔ Words & Wordplay
My question is how much time has passed, and has he matured any since you last dated. If he has grown up and matured, and lets say move than a year has passed and he seems remorseful for the way that he acted. I would say yes maybe give him another chance. Just remember to take things slow, you are in the drivers seat on this one. Don't tell him about your feeling or how your are feeling, just trust your feelings. If it feels right go for it. If not stop returning his calls and move on with you life. We get the respect in life that we demand. Don't be a door mat stand tall. If he doesn't respect you, he will never love you. Good Luck!
2007-04-22 10:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by sendittojeff 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Relationships are like house fires - if you get out, stay out! You didn't hold his interest before and he found someone he liked better. Why do you think he won't look elsewhere this time? He will. He has proven to you that he is untrustworthy so why give him the chance to hurt you again? And how on earth will you believe anything he says?
I think this guy cheated to serve his own ego, not because he actually liked the other girl more as a person than he liked you. It was whatever she made him feel that he liked. Now he's not getting that from her anymore (she is smart enough not to be with him) and he wants it from you. This guy is seeking attention, ego massage, affection, adoration, sex, whatever, wherever he can get it. It is not about you now and it wasn't about you then. Get someone who thinks you are the bees-knees first time round! Not someone who has dismissed you for another girl. You're second best to this guy whichever way you look at it. Don't let him wheedle his way back in!
2007-04-22 10:18:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would stay away, he should have treated you that way all the time, and what makes you think hes not going to find another girl and do it to you all over again. of course hes treating you the way you deserve to be treated, because its about power for him, knowing he could hurt you like he did, and then come back and you will accept. my advice it to move on, and tell him he lost you a while ago. yeah it sucks, and it hurts but you need to move on and do whats right for you. the relationship will never be how it was originally, and things will just be like they used to be, he will change back to the way he was...it wont last. good luck, hope i could help!
2007-04-22 10:09:48 · answer #3 · answered by bishbabe129 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Good question! My answer; have you ever gone to the refrigerator and found that the milk was sour-I bet you have, we all have. Now, have you ever known the soured milk to turn sweet again? Sincerely, T, Rex Davidson
2007-04-22 12:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by T REX D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he dumped you once he'll do it again. Keep that in mind.
2007-04-22 10:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by oilfieldinsultant 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And you put this question in words & wordplay because????
2007-04-22 10:10:54 · answer #6 · answered by 2007_Shelby_GT500 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
y is this in words and wordplay???
2007-04-22 10:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
are you talking about TAYLOR?!?
2007-04-23 11:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by encantame. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋