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My boyfriend and I have been discussing moving and we just found a great house. I'm 38 weeks pregnant with my first child and I really dont know what to expect. I wanted to know how hard or stressful new moms think trying to move would be. Is is something that would be worthwhile at this time? Or would it be too hard? We would have a full month at least to get into the new house.

2007-04-22 08:40:59 · 13 answers · asked by Christina 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Newborn & Baby

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Congrats on the baby and the new house. You are half way there. My pregnancy first & only was the worst and I found it difficult to do much. Best advice is do as much as you can now for later it will be much harder. We moved from PA to California after the baby was born. Its very hard getting things together for a big move once you have an infant, trust me. We drove cross country with a 6 month old. Its not the best of situtations, but you do what you NEED to do.

Get as much help as you can. REPEAT: Get as much help as you can. Remember to sleep, and drink plenty of fluids. Dehydration was my biggest problem along with sheer exhaustion towards the end. Dont put off today for what you think you will be able to accomplish the next day. If they baby arrives early and they do, will you be prepared?

A new house is a tremendous amount of stress and the things to do list is long. Stressful, yes then add a baby to that. Do fix the nursery first. I waited to long and the baby was here and her room wasnt finished. Best of luck to you.

2007-04-22 10:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I was in the same situation as you are now when I had my son, minus about 2 weeks. The best advice I can give you is to set up all of the basics first: bed, nursery, couch. Worry about decorating and putting everything away later. Make sure you don't lift anything too heavy now or for a good month after delivery. The baby will probably sleep through most of it. If you really want to, you can do it.
Good luck and congrats!

2007-04-22 20:25:08 · answer #2 · answered by lkn4trth 3 · 0 0

I don't know if you are going to have a cesarean or not, but I had one in Feb 2006. My husband and I drove 600 miles away to visit my parents 6 weeks after the birth, and it was SO difficult for me. It was hard to walk up steps, and I certainly couldn't be lifting anything heavier than 8 pounds.

At this point, I would say that you would have to sit on the couch and direct your boyfriend what to pack where, and he would have to move everything, or get help.

It is amazing how you want to put EVERYTHING on hold once the baby is born, and in your case, it is too late in your pregnancy to be active.

2007-04-22 08:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by gg 7 · 0 0

If you are going to move, do it before you pop! Pack up and seal everything, label by room and contents, and make sure all the helpers know the system.
Pack the kitchen/baby stuff last, and unpack them first when you get there. If you have valuables or irreplacables, pack them in your trunk [ if not movng very far, put in someone's closet temporarily.] Make sure you eat regularly and sleep in a decent bed.
Moving is a lot of work, so is a new baby!
p.s. Throw or give away what you don't want/need;it'll just make you mad when you unpack it again.

2007-04-22 08:58:08 · answer #4 · answered by Nurse Susan 7 · 0 0

Just try an be as organized as you possibly can be. The battle begins with how well organized you are. The more organized, I think the better off you'll be. The only thing I can think of is that you will be really tired and sore after the birth, so you may need LOTS of extra help. Other than that, I wouldn't worry too much about it! Congrats!

2007-04-22 09:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by ProudMama2Mason 3 · 0 0

Do what ever makes you more comfortable but yes it would be a little hard to do since you have to pack and move things and all that stufff and then once you move into the house, you have to unpack and then get the baby's things together. Gee, a lot of hard work. Again, do what ever will work for you and your boyfriend's schedule. Good luck and congrats!

2007-04-22 08:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Honestly I don't see the problem, it's a new born it's not going to notice the difference. The only thing is if there needs to have repairs such as painting and that sort it'd probably be better if the baby isn't there because of fumes. It think with a infant it'd be a lot easier then with a toddler or older child.

2007-04-22 08:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 1 0

I have done it. I have also moved with a 10 month old. Trust me, it is much easier with a newborn. Also, easier with a newborn rather than pregnant. I put her in one of those front baby carriers and that made things easier while I was packing. If you end up with a mellow baby, baby can just nap while you are packing. Good luck!

2007-04-22 09:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Z 2 · 0 0

right here is what we did. My cat had kittens around 3 a.m. one morning under our mattress. I set some nutrients and water interior of sight for mama, and enable them to be till previous due the subsequent night, which develop into our wedding ceremony night and we've been afraid the mattress could fall on them. Lol. (It had in no way fallen before, yet who knows, precise?) We took the suited off a huge cardboard storage field and that i folded some previous, sparkling clothing in it, set it in a spare closet, and placed the little relatives in it. They have been only nice. Mama did attempt to circulate them lower back under the mattress some situations, yet we only watched her. After a together as, while she gets used to her new nest, she'll cool down.

2016-11-26 20:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by russ 4 · 0 0

I would definately wait... Having a baby is a HUGE thing... lovely, but stressful, tiresome and demanding. Moving is a HUGE thing... loveley, but stressful, tiresome and demanding. Unless you have a CRAZY amount of help and support, I woulnd't tackle such a task b/c the two mixed is awful. Congrats!!

2007-04-22 10:04:21 · answer #10 · answered by tiyona17 2 · 0 0

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