I'm 13, 5'5" and weigh about 108-110 lbs. I'm going to my friend cheyenne's pool party and I'm really consus[sp.?] about how I look in my bikini. I'm in track, so I have a semi-hard abdomen. I'm not really big on junk food, and i think I'm fat?
Help?
2007-04-22 08:03:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first of all that is not fat, second why do you have the self esteem issues. I am sure you are very toned and all with being in track I know I was you have nothing to worry about just go and have fun, good luck,.
2007-04-22 08:10:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is absolutely normal to feel the way you do. however, when you look in the mirror, whose eyes are you looking at. are you picking apart yourself based on what you are afraid everyone else is going to notice? or are you picking apart the things that actually bother you personally. just think-- i know it may not seem like it, but every other girl there in a bikini (and not) is going to be feeling self-conscious about herself as well. REason is b/c they're all going to think about what everyone else thinks. What you need to do is act confident, even though you may not feel it. And be positive. When you go to the party, compliment people and they will most likely comment back which should make you feel good and lesson your fears. But don't let your fears consume you so much that you don't have a great time!!! They are your friends b/c of who you are-- not how you look in a bathing suit. Have fun!
2007-04-22 16:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by tiyona17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're underweight, which isn't healthy.
Talking to someone about how you feel about your weight is the only way to get past how you're feeling. Talk to a parent, friend, teacher, or even a counselor.
You definitely shouldn't be feeling this way, you're skinny! If you need someone to talk to, I'm Laura on http://www.teenelement.net
2007-04-22 15:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as long as you are happy with the way u look then go.
2007-04-22 17:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by i love my Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not fat,please don't destroy your confidence because of something so stupid.
2007-04-22 15:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at all the fat lards around you... you arent one of them
2007-04-22 15:16:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are sooo not fat. dont worry about it
2007-04-22 15:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋