In your opinion, what's the best way to get revenge against someone that doesn't involve ANYTHING illegal or nothing that would cause physical harm? Something psychologically unnerving or annoying.
2007-04-22 06:22:16 · 18 answers · asked by Viking 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
by making the one your wanting to get even with the idea you are planning on payback. This can be done easy with a trusting friend that can say to this person wow what do you think he will do to get even. this puts a thought that your working on a plan so they do not know when you are going to strike. they will begin to watch you and all you have to do is give them a little smile and walk away. i have seen people lose sleep and beg for you to do something to get even so they can have peace of mind. because regardless how big or strong someone is fear of the unknown is so much stronger.
2007-04-22 06:54:46 · answer #1 · answered by Savage 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
A friend once said something to that I have lived to live by in the terms of revenge. I think we all can be revengeful but to act out on it is to me almost a sin. I do not feel good being revengeful so. The best revenge is living well. I like this the best because to me it serves more than one purpose. I learned to live well and for those that I want revenge on I just have to sit back and let them see . Ask yourself what the best revenge is and then answer the question. Then ask yourself how you would feel following threw. Are there consequences to pay? Follow the law of Karma. People usually get whats coming to them. Most of all be good to yourself.
2007-04-22 20:48:29 · answer #2 · answered by margo322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best ideas you've seen here are to forget about it, but that doesn't seem possible right? That's right, you have to work through it. You can't just push it back inside, or it will fester like a cancer.
Nothing you do will satisfy your bitterness. It will grow and each time you seek revenge it will be stronger. Let's do what every Miss America dreams of and create "World Peace.
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2007-04-22 06:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question! How long do you have? Revenge does not need to be immediate, and can sometimes take a lifetime! I ought to know , i practice revenge continously! First learn to hold a grudge, this is self awareness training! Then, keep a list, this is environmental training!< then learn to program your "tivo" this is timed perceptual training! You will eventually begin to notice, how different grudges overlap in time! Allow this to occur it will not detract from your efforts! Dont get discouraged, each time you achieve revenge, your morale will soar! I know mine does!
2007-04-22 06:36:34 · answer #4 · answered by chicogringosegundo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely, the main suitable component which you're able to do isn't react. ok, of direction you have complete rights to react and to react badly - that b*tch humiliated you and stole your money! yet giving her a reaction will instruct her that she has gotten to you and that she is 'better'. Delete her out of your facebook in case you haven't any longer already - certainly, delete her out of your life. good success! Charly.
2016-10-03 09:46:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Randy was at the mall and found a great place to park. A rude Pick-up Truck that almost crashed into him cut him off into his car to steal the parking spot he waited for. To make matters worse, it was the man who had denied him a job because he was giving it to his snot nosed nephew. Randy wrote a note to the driver, "Revenge is mine."
Now Randy was a man with who you do not want to mess with, as revenge was always consuming his thoughts. However, he was a patient at getting his revenge. Instead of starting a brawl over this, he wrote down the man’s license plate number and latter looked up the owner registration, and address of the jerk.
The next day Randy was at a restaurant where the waiter was rude, untimely, was flirting with his date, and then overcharged him for the food. His date let him know that she was sorry but had been crushing on the waiter for a long time. Calmly, Randy payed the bill, and offered his date a ride home. Before they left, Randy wrote a note and gave it to a waitress to give to the waiter saying, "Revenge is mine." Again Randy was a patient man and stalked the waiter until he could get his name, address, and phone number.
Randy was having a bad day and decided to cash in to his efforts of these men who had ‘messed’ with him. So he called the ‘Restaurant’ dude and just started yelling at him (using *67 to block identity). This made Randy feel so much better riding him of his rage. Then another time Randy was full of anger and decided to write out a bad note of ill will and left it with dog poop on the windshield of the “Pick-up Truck”. He watched as the ‘Pick-up Truck’ dude read and then throw a tantrum. Again, Randy felt great. He continued calling and harassing the waiter and leaving ‘Gifts‘ on the pick - up truck.
Soon Randy got bored of his shenanigans, and noticed that these two men lived within blocks of each other. Then he called his Waiter and instead of remaining anonymous, he said “Oh, yeah tough guy, you’re nobody. I live a few blocks from you and you don’t have the guts to stand up for yourself … yeah, well I live a few blocks away and drive -that Pick-up truck. You’re a looser ... I told you revenge would be mine.”
Then the waiter left his house and headed to the Pick-up Truch and started throwing things at it. The Pick-up Truck Driver heard the commotion and ran out to protect his truck. The waiter was yelling, "So, revenge is yours hun ... see how you like this (smashes the lights) ..." and of course the Pick-Up Driver pounds the waiter face in saying, "I deserve the Revenge, you've been messing with my truck for too long now".
Randy just sat back and watched the Waiter go to the Pick-Up Truck Driver’s settle his revenge for him. He was finally satisfied with loosing his job and girl.
2007-04-22 06:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-04-22 06:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler Witt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge or vengeance or retribution or vendetta
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Revenge
2007-04-22 10:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by S c a l p e r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get revenge. just rise above it! i know that's not you were looking for...but that's what i believe.
don't waste your energy on someone you want to get revenge on because they're not worth it!
2007-04-22 14:27:32 · answer #9 · answered by mle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to "live well and prosper."
Don't take yourself down to the level of the one who did you wrong.
2007-04-22 06:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by Barry 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋