I'm a bisexual, and have realised for probably about 3 years now, but i haven't been able to come out of the closet until this year at uni (girl's school...or just my year maybe, horrible homophobes, apart from my friends.) ive had flings and all that with girls and guys since then, but i really do miss having a particular 'someone'...the workload is at peak right now coz of the upcoming foundation exhibition, plus ive been ill and my parents have been here (they don't know...slight problem) my friends have either girlfriends or boyfriends, we went out clubbing about 2 nights ago, and i couldn't help but being instantly on a hunting mode, it's horrible!
Does anyone have any suggestions as to what I can do....?
2007-04-22 06:01:33 · 6 answers · asked by daftks 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i guess it's suggestions to what i can do to sort myself out and stop looking so stupidly love-starved in front of new people...plus, when i see people that i kind of like from appearance, i go all shy...
extra info: i live in london and go to csm college of art and design. you'd think that you'd be able to find someone being in an art college and all..but so far no luck...=/
2007-04-22 06:29:44 · update #1
Its normal to go into the hunt mode when your friends are all " Attached " but if you want somebody special to be there and you have no one, have some of your closest friends be at the event with you. Finding someone takes time sometimes a lot of time, maybe checking out an ex and see if they want to give it another try. Being in an all girls school there maybe a few lesbians but are in the so called closet, keep your eyes open look for maybe signs of intrest you may have missed or blew off so keep hunting and looking someone will come your way eventually. I'm straight but work with a lot of lesbians and bi-sexuals they confide in me with the same problem you are not alone. It is just society today I don't know where you live but things maybe more better if you live out west say california or nevada things are pretty wide open there!
2007-04-22 06:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by mikef1234 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know of a website but thought of a generally good cut. Layers, which I am sure you already considered. Layers that begin a little higher than normal can really jazz up a normally drab and longer head of hair. Try to get a cut with flexibility so you can curl it both in and out, or even tight or loose spirals and still have enough lenth on it so it weighs it down enough and doesn't get crazy.
2016-05-21 01:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you can do about what? Wanting a girlfriend/boyfriend? It's perfectly natural to crave a relationship at times but remember that a real relationship takes work and you might have too much going on now for such things. Take it slow. Go have fun with your friends, flirt at the clubs (but don't lead anybody on), do your homework, just live. About "coming out" as bisexual the Human Rights Campaign site has great info on that. You might feel less stressed if you had to hide your feelings less but that choice is up to you.
2007-04-22 06:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resign yourself to being single and trust me, someone will find you. I was in your situation for 3 years, I gave up and was picked up by my current girlfriend, we've been together 5 years this May.
Good luck! x
2007-04-22 06:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by Karen S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nothing wrong with 'hunting mode' ..just play safely:)
2007-04-22 06:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you shave your backside? i see that some lesbians have hairy hineyholes. how do you women get rid of hiney hair?
2007-04-22 06:07:09 · answer #6 · answered by sook y 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋