Keep in mind I'm in America ( i think that might have something to do with it). I'm always nice too them. Every girl I've taken on a date I've paid for everything, been a Gentleman, and talked to them and joked around once in a while. In the end they all just want to be friends.It seems like they almost shun away from me. I've never had a girlfriend who didn't end up using me. Girls at work are constantly being mean to me (some days I don't even bother talking). Am I just a target for women to treat badly?
2007-04-22 05:17:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What kind of girls are you dating? You need to find a woman that will respect you for treating her well, not run over you for it.
2007-04-22 05:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by Angela F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sick as it is, a lot of women go for the "bad boy". This will come back to bite them in the butt eventually. I'm not suggesting you stop being the gentleman who you are. Just be patient. You'll find someone who appreciates you for who you are. My man was used by women before he met me & I was the nice one and was used by men. Now that we're together, we appreciate each other & take care of each other. It can happen to you, too.
2007-04-22 05:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by shermynewstart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful you're not married, Guy. That's when they move the mother-in-law in and gang up on you. Seriously, the problem is this "nice" word. Women don't want to be treated nicely, otherwise Mexicans would never get married! Try confidence and maybe a little on the cocky side.
2007-04-22 05:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being an open wallet and a limp dish rag. Women respect men who know what they want. That doesn't mean you have to be a brute, it does mean if you keep ending up in the "friend zone" that you must come off like a wuss.
2007-04-22 05:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, where do you meet these women? it's always a bad idea to date someone from work. they won't respect you if you are at the same work level and they should be off limits if you are a manager. do you meet them at bars? another bad idea cuz most of the women who regularly hang out at bars and clubs are interested in the bling-bling from the get go.
first off, try meeting women in more natural settings like the gym, or church, or libraries, laundomats, etc. you are more likely to meet women at their most natural behavior. (no fakes or posing while washing undies, trust me...)
and then, take a sober look at yourself. do you carry the scent of desperation? do you try to hard to impress with your wallet instead of your character? you say that you are "nice" but does your "nice" come with a price tag? (i notice that you are quick to point out your financial investment in women) and what exactly does it mean to be a "gentleman"? (if it means that you are stiff and uptight - that might be a problem with your date) and finally, do you set your sights for women who are unattainable? (do you seek out the alpha females when you are totally not an alpha male?) you might want to set your sights on women who are available to you emotionally.
you do sound like a target for mean-spirited women to use as a scratching post, because you make yourself available for that use...
2007-04-22 05:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by chieko 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they don't start up out as jerks. They attraction their way right into a lady's heart and then even as she loves him, he will start up to slowly be a jerk. human beings act like its something you are able to pinpoint and say no to even as it takes position even if the female will change into so brainwashed that when the acute abuse starts they do no longer recognize what to do and they tell themselves that it received't ensue back even if it regularly does and it receives worse. So undesirable that they sense they could't go away because of what they'll do. They threaten to kill your pets, your family contributors and frequently even your children. that's no longer so straightforward as you're making it out to be. The abuser is in basic terms about continuously very desirable which truly confuses the female. They do it because they have psychological issues.
2016-12-04 11:15:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand how being in America would have anything to do with why girls treat you badly. OK, but anyway, maybe you are coming on too strong. You don't give much to really go on.
2007-04-22 05:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by My Jay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your personality allow for girls to take advantage of you. Maybe you are too passive...Maybe you tend to date really hot chics, who have a really high standard...and that might make you feel like you need to bow down to them.
Just change your attitude. realize, its not the girls, if more than one is doing it to you. Its something to do with you, something you need to work on...and maybe you need to find a chic who likes you for the qualities you have, and not just for a free dinner
2007-04-22 11:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anthony L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are tooo nice. soo nice that if a girl walks all over you.. you wont say anything.. or.. maybe those women are just mean and rude.. u sound like a nice guy :) iono whats wrong with those girls.. if i had a guy like u.. i wouldnt let u go! u sound to perfect.. or maybe that's the problem.. lol
2007-04-22 05:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Oaty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Maybe you should consider someone who maybe understands you, who likes a Gentelman. Some girls don't like Gentlemen.( Unlike me) Find someone who does, and you won't be shunned alot.
2007-04-22 05:23:53 · answer #10 · answered by Evelyn D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋