I consistently dream of my boyfreind having sex with different women, and having orgy then I wake up crying cause it seems soo real - I already accused of him of cheating for obvious reasons but why do i have to keep dreaming this
2007-04-22 05:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Because you think he is. And you're probably right.
2007-04-22 05:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
To dream that your mate, spouse, or significant other is cheating on you, indicates your fears of being abandoned. You may feel a lack of attention in the relationship. Alternatively, you may feel that you are not measuring up to the expectations of others. This notion may stem from issues of trust or self-esteem.
Boyfriend
To see your boyfriend in your dream, represents your waking relationship with him and how you feel about him.
Orgy
To see an orgy in your dream, signifies repressed desires of your own sexuality and passion.� It may also mean that there is some sort of confusion in where you distribute your energies. You may be going in to many direction and as a result, is spread too thin.
2007-04-22 18:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...I will have to agree with the first person that answered your question. Sometimes our subconscious plays a game with what we really want to where you are having these dreams about your boyfriend but actually you are thinking about cheating yourself on him. This is not unusual. Sometimes our subconscious will tell us in dreams on our true feelings but in the opposite way. If it's not that, then I would say that you are dwelling on the fact that your bf has cheated in the past and you are afraid of him doing it again, which by the way will likely happen. If they do it once they will do it twice. Good luck!
2007-04-22 12:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by shuggabhugga05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because it's one of your worst fears. Fears are common dreams. How many people have ever dreamed of falling off a Cliff or being in some accident where in your dream life and death or pain and suffering are the topic. Don't let the dream bother you. It's just a dream./
2007-04-22 12:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sub-consciously, that is what left on your mind prior on going to sleep. it seems you do not trust your boyfriend, maybe you heard it from others. the only way you get it out of your system is to talk openly with your boyfriend, lay your cards and prepared yourself for any unexpected truths. if you continue to accuse without proof, that is unhealthy on your relationship. why be bother then? if your man is friendly, helpful and too nice, he will be like that to others. you need to get used to it, accept him for what he is. does he work in public? requires politics manner? those are the attitude that some man possess to keep his status going, not actually cheating on you. i used to be one green eyed monster, but when i realize i am hurting our relationship, i accept him and we bonded tight. so if you love him dearly, you need to admit and psyche yourself that he loves no one else, he just friendly and nothing can change that.
2007-04-22 12:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by salome 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have trust issues that you need to deal with. It's your fear that makes you dream it, not anything to do with him. You need to examine why you feel this way. Has someone betrayed you in the past? If so, make a conscious effort to realize, your boyfriend isn't the one who betrayed you. See him for who he is, and how he treats you.
2007-04-22 12:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by cj_justme 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
its in ur subconscious and u dont have a good trust bond in ur relationship. another theory is that it might happen soon, it has for me. u two should talk abt this, if he shows those signs, leave before he does cheat. hope this helps. good luck and god bless.
2007-04-22 12:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Vonaparte' 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's something that you have been thinking about recently and it's just something that your brain randomly puts together with other bits and pieces of things that you have been thinking recently.
2007-04-22 12:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by miss_silver_tongue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe cause he slept with some one your are really close to like your bestfreind or sister or any other relative
2007-04-22 14:06:13 · answer #9 · answered by Christian H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either you have a suspicious nature. Or your spirit is telling you he is cheating.
2007-04-22 12:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by THE NEXT LEVEL 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Paranoia and schizophrenia
2007-04-22 12:12:42 · answer #11 · answered by moondrop000 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋