hi..friends.. I am 17 year old girl...I am beautiful also... my problem is somewhere(in exam classes) I have to meet different guys... I don't talk to them..but they ask me diffrnt que about study..whethere they don;t know me...without my name..or school... and they get interest in me..
'ab kal ki hi bat le lo'... one guy ask me for my phonenumber....I refused..and walkaway... what should I do...? I have no interest in any type of this guy..becase I have my boyfriend... how can I ignore them..??
2007-04-22 02:59:08 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to ignore them till it becomes too difficult. I have a feeling that they are getting some kind of subtle hint from you. If this is the case then your body language should change in a way that they understand that you are not interested in them.May be one of these days you could walk with bf along side to let them know what you are.
2007-04-30 00:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Janu going away from them will not solve the problem!! Change the way you think about them will make the difference. They may be approaching you because you are beautiful & intelligent as it is a very common thing which happens in School & Universities.
You do not need to be harsh. You need to tell them that you need time for everything & that you dont easily make friends. If any one of you need any genuine help I will be most happy to help you.
Communication is the solution of every problem not Ignorance!
2007-04-29 21:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by Radiator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well no harm speaking to different people as long as they are clear that there is a line they cant cross. also a good to keep your BF update on the people that you are giving out the Numbers out too. Don't want him to be jealous and all. Once they tend to get too annoying simply drop the same. remember you don't have to return or run to the phone to answer just because they call, and just because you give out you #. from the looks of it you were pretty anxious and nervous to put out your question out here. well listen to some sound advice. bye for now. By the way whats your number nah ... Just kidding. Have a great day
2007-04-22 03:39:40 · answer #3 · answered by red_stemp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn thats crazy.... not to be mean or anything but maybe you are to sure of your self... i mean do u alwayz tell everyone.. o yea by the way im beautiful.... that could possibly lead someone on ya know... why would u get on here in the 1st place and tell everyone that ur beautiful when u have a b/f but u tryna get all these other guys away or for them to quit talking to u dont make any sense whatsoever..... well u are only 17 so yea that could also be the problem... not tryna be mean but its the truth.. just tell all them other guys ur not interested in them and that u have a man and if they could possibly leave u alone... not unless u just flirt or show to much then they will keep tryna talk to u so yea..
2007-04-27 21:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur baeutiful these sort of things r bound 2 happen.
u have 2 live with it all ur life but the best sollution is 2 b smart.
just sport an indifferent atitude..... i mean try looking and behaving dumb. it might sound as a joke, but trust me when i tried it worked!
and learn some karate judo- if they try 2 get more friendly well u know what to do.
2007-04-29 18:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell them ur not interested with such cycos. try 2 avoid them. can't u do this simple job? u should have this much guts to refuse them b'coz if ther is guts there is glory. i f u can't do yhis simple job then marry ur bf be a typical house wife and take ur husband with u as a body gaurd wherever u go. amd there is another remedy also, i hope u've shoe polish at ur home and just polish it on ur face b4 getting out of ur home.JUST CHILL.
2007-04-22 04:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with girls. Just smile and be polite. It's okay to be friendly, but don't give them your phone number. If any of these guys is persistent, let him know that you have a boyfriend and that you are happy with him.
2007-04-22 03:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 17 yrs old all a boy can do is ask for your number, he can't ask you to marry him! Take with a grain of salt ( It does not mean much) They are just trying to see if your serious bout your little teenage relationship or not.
2007-04-29 15:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Student 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi , i can just say that u should tell them that u already have a boyfriend but u can do this only if u have no prob if they know abt ur personal life . at last do what u fell right, talk to ur boyfriend abt it and if he is aggressive then just ignore or whenever they ask u abt studies just say i dont know or just tell them that u dont want to talk to them
2007-04-29 21:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by k_m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha, ur lucky to b getting all kind of attraction then.. u just cant ignore such things dear, just dont give smiles to anybody who comes to u thats it.. bcz smile plays a big role in such cases.. just b confined to u and ur boyfriend... dont make friends like that who are not worth making ...
but yes beauty is alwys goin 2 attract guys.. so u gotta learn how to deal with it.. right??
2007-04-22 03:16:02 · answer #10 · answered by Deeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋