Why is difficult to see one's own faults ? In my thinking...... !!!!!!?

Question

It is very difficult to see one's own faults :
Only a man who loves himself can see them.
Don't listen to other,What they says about us.
See ourself,Who we are,Where we are,What our fault,
though our own awareness,disolves it...

What u think... ?
Is it right ?

Answer 1

we are humans and not perfect, as someone has mentioned, perfect is one GOD. And the one who loves himself will never ever admit or see faults in himself. but will take out faults out of other personalities. because he does'nt want to be portraited bad or "faulted one" in someone's view. there are certain things in which play an important role in not looking at your faults. EGO and PRIDE. they are the main enemies of human nature and prevent humans from accepting their faults.

Answer 2

Hmm.. I must admit that I don't exactly agree with your statement, " Only a man who loves himself can see his faults." That is CERTAINLY not true, and I actually believe it is quite the opposite. Pride is what destroys one. It is the overconfidence that he/she can do just about anything and everything correct and efficient in life. Those people don't have many true friends or love in their lives. They probably even only love themselves. Those two statements i previously just made is basically my own criticism, but I guess for some people it is hard to find their faults and change themselves, while others search for their wrong-doings.

Answer 3

A intelligent, open-minded, rational human being can
see their faults, accept them and change them
A person with knowledge can also take constructive criticism.
A person with common sense knows the difference between
someone being jealous, with envy and negativity than someone who is giving a honest answer/opinion.
A real man or woman HAS 2 look in the mirror and judge and
correct our faults because we all have them. It is not difficult if you want 2 continue 2 grow and improve as a person.
Keeping it real comes from within, if you are not honest with yourself how can you be honest with anyone else.

Answer 4

It's difficult to see the truth about ourselves because it is difficult to be objective about the self.

But I think rather than not seeing our faults we actually magnify our faults to an unreal degree and tend to be hypercritical of ourselves to the point where we focus on nothing but the negative. No good can come of focusing on the negative.

Self love is the point we need to be at to be able to love and receive love from others.

Answer 5

Hey Trust, i disagree with your thought. A man who loves himself will never see his own fault because he will try to justify whatever he does. This is called "Self-deception". I have met very few people in my life who admit their faults. To do it one should know the art of being in someone else's shoes. So having a neutral opinion about yourself is very important.

Answer 6

because of the fact of this i'm professional-classic-marriage. It did no longer enable adult males to act this way, and the two women and adult males individuals had standards. I truthfully have faith it extremely is our society's fault, for some reason we've come to settle for this, particularly than proceed to restoration it, even with the adult males, women individuals and teenagers that be afflicted by it. i think of the two women and adult males individuals might desire to be selective in a society such because of the fact the only that we've created. "intercourse training" merely would not seem to cut back it.

Answer 7

Relativity! Everything is reative.Your faults, you recognise as faults only when you compare !!!
But then if one could spare little time to turn to self and look at it, and with the knowledge he judges others, he would definetly be able to see his own faults!

Answer 8

We find it dififcult to admit our faults because we are all egoists at some level-- and the ego finds it difficult to admit out truth and prefers a false front of pretense. This is the problem with advocating "loving yourself" or "seeing yourself" as a solution to your stated predicatment-- because the ego blocks our sense of who we really and truly are. Further, admitting one's faults means that one might have to change-- and if there is one thing that is harder for us to do than admitting our truth, it is being willing to change.

Answer 9

Introspection,what they call it ,is always necessary at every moment for one's own improvement. Afterall ,anybody or for that matter, everybody is prone to make a mistake at one stage or the other.It is wisely said--to err is human--but to forgive is divine. So, we must at the same time ,as onlookers, try to forgive and forget, the faults of the others.That is the real meaning underlying life.

Answer 10

Yes. Being able to look at one's self objectively takes concentration and dedication. If one takes the time to practice objectivity, then one can get a better perspective at times, because the emotions one feels when one is involved with something, are temporarily not impairing a clear view of what is going on. When you can see things clearly and understand, then you can make better decisions.