My friend had lost her bab and her b-day is coming up what can I do for her ?Please no rude answers.
2007-04-22 01:51:16 · 11 answers · asked by purpal2002002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-04-22 01:51:41 · update #1
friskymisty01,You don't tell ppl that lost a baby to try again for another
2007-04-22 02:06:46 · update #2
Please stop saying stuff like she can have more kids it was not a miscarrage it was still born full trem baby.
2007-04-22 02:09:33 · update #3
Play it by ear. Your friend will be feeling a lot of things and will need to know that you're there for her. Base what you do on what she feels. Ask her if there is anything she would like to do to commemorate that day. If she doesn't know maybe suggest something like a private birthday party or a private memorial. Mostly just be there and encourage her to express whatever she's feeling. Give her a safe space to let it all out. And let her know she has your support.
2007-04-22 02:11:06 · answer #1 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if this was a stillborn birth or if the baby was a few months old. A wonderful idea that I have heard recently is to take a clothing item from the deceased and have it made into a bear. An easier way to do this if you can't sew or if the clothing is so tiny is to take a bear and maybe handstitch a heart shaped piece of the clothing onto the bear. I am so sorry for your loss and pray that everyone involved will be comforted.
2016-05-21 00:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone who just recently lost a baby a couple of months before my b-day... The best thing to do for her is let her know that you are always there for her when she needs a ear or even a shoulder. At this time she really needs her loved ones. And also let her know that she will still have kids when the timing is right.
Ok after reading that it's a still birth and you don't want to reassure her that she can still have kids then the best thing to do is be there for her.
2007-04-22 01:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Becky Z 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is going to be really hard for her to get through. It is going to take alot of time for her to get past this. Which she prolly never will. The best thing you could do is to just be there for her. Let her cry on you shoulder. Be a listener, helper her in any way you can. She will prolly just love you being around. You could take her out for her b-day if she is up for that. Maybe try and get her out of the house. Might take her mind off of it a little bit.
I am sorry to hear this. It is a very sad thing to hear. I hope your friend can get through this okay. Just be there for her. In her time of need. Sorry .
2007-04-22 03:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by Bobbie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
losing a baby can be probably one of the hardest things you will go threw and getting over it takes time. Just be her friend and if she wants to talk about it let her. If she dont then go out for lunch and go for a walk on the beach or something but just be her friend.
2007-04-22 01:54:52 · answer #5 · answered by jeannie f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend need you right now. Let her feel that your always there if she needs you. Talk to her, don't mention about the lost of her baby. Slow talk to her some anecdotes. Sooner or later she will slowly recover.
2007-04-22 02:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by cutiefy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for an all day girls day. Hair , makeover, nails ...the whole bit. Sounds like she needs some pampering. Good Luck
2007-04-22 01:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by emy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps take her out for the day,,,,, plan a day trip to an interesting place, visit a zoo, go to a play, have lunch,,,,, or even plan an overnight trip to a nearby city,,,,,,, or get together for a sleep over, give each other facials, do nails, watch a movie,,,
2007-04-22 01:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by dlin333 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she'll want to celebrate her b/day...this is very hard on her to lose her baby. All you can do is be there for her , support her, help her through her grief* ..let her know it wasn't meant to be....and in time she can "try" again to have another child* GOODLUCK*
2007-04-22 01:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend the day wth her.go to church together.
2007-04-22 01:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋