2007-04-22 00:25:34 · 26 answers · asked by angiemc 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind....lol
just reject the phone calls, find a new hobby to fill the time you used to spend with them, tell your friends to remind you of why you broke up in case you start reminiscing on the "good ole days", eat ice cream...then go exercise to get rid of frustration over the fact that you just ate a whole quart of ice cream, don't hang out in places that remind you of him/her, switch up your schedule so that you don't run into him/her (if possible) start talking to other potential lovers, make a list of all the good and bad things about that person (make sure the bad things outweigh the good lol), STOP LISTENING TO LOVE SONGS! at least until you stop relating everysingle one of them to your life and feel the need to cry when you sing along with them in the car... go out with friends more, don't spend tie staring at the walls wondering what your ex is doing, no matter what DO NOT call them or stalk them on Facebook or AIM or any other instant messenger...
yeah that's about it for now :) GOOD LUCK!
2007-04-22 00:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well... first of all you should have your friends there supporting you
if there are no friends around(my best friends are studying in another city) you should go do something new and interesting which involves socializing. i joined an organization
you should make a list of the things you disliked at him
make a list of the things you like more about being single.
see this as an opportunity to have more time on your hands to do things you have always wanted to but didn't because your ex was there
avoid contact with him as much as possible. here we have a saying-ochii care nu se vad se uita- which means: out of site, out of mind
pamper yourself. get a new haircut, a massage, get your nails done. have some friends over. play society games.
take up dancing lessons.
try to put away stuff that reminds you of him.
i'm not just saying stuff...i'm out of this 2 year relationship and kinda' miss everything i had but try not to think about it. my boyfriend said gbye 3 weeks ago.
now i go out with people i can have a healthy conversation on other topics than romance. i do stuff i couldn't do back then because my bf was jealous. i have time to take care of myself.
you are your best possession and you should try to understand that it's best to be independent.
2007-04-23 05:04:01 · answer #2 · answered by Madeline 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a list of all the bad things about him /her and when you read through it a few times you will wonder what you ever liked about them in the first place. If it has just happened to you them I must sympathise as I was kicked out after 20 years but it does get better so go out there and find someone more deserving. Good luck
2007-04-22 03:51:16 · answer #3 · answered by lucassfred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep busy - meet new people, maybe get a part time evening job if you live alone, it worked for me! Then one day you will realise why you broke up in the first place and stop dwelling on it. Good luck xx
2007-04-22 00:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by JoJi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new one or a job with more hours. Might as well make some extra money, right?
The best revenge is living well.
2007-04-22 00:29:02 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy R 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a new haircut and some new clothes, and then go out with all your best girlfriends and prove to yourself that you are the most gorgeous and fun person ever, and its their loss.... and then laugh... LAUGH at their loss and how they'll never get any better than you. lol. Good luck x
2007-04-22 00:41:54 · answer #6 · answered by MiniMed 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out there and get a new one. Failing that keep busy doing anything that takes your mind of it
2007-04-22 09:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invest some money in a Real Doll, will take you mind of things until you get your self back on ya feet, LOL that's if you don't get attached to it.......
2007-04-22 01:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by SIA RenKnRaM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself forget them by getting on with your life...visit your parents and relatives, get into a hobby club, learn new things,catch up with your reading...and tell yourself very firmly that you are much better off without him/her.
2007-04-22 01:03:56 · answer #9 · answered by Sarmila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get over them. Stop harboring feeling over some person.
2007-04-22 14:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by Jasumi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋