i just got out of a bad relationship and then turned right around and got in another one. im lost sad and ive been crying. both of the guys i dated were nice until it came down to doing what they wanted to do. it seems that they were always putting other things before me. i dont want to end my second relatioship but he keeps putting me to the side on weekends and he only comes over at night. he never takes me out and at the same time he wants to have sex. im confused. im weak minded and im letting these guys walk all over me. then on top of that the second guy i dated , we work together but i knew him before i started the job. plz some advice is needed. i need some help.
2007-04-21 23:16:59 · 15 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never let a guy brake you down
Never frown but smile
A guy aint worth the tears
And you never know another person might be falling in love with you and your smile
2007-04-21 23:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't tell your age. I can guess that you are young. No one was the right person for you. Is better to stop the relationship and go on. You will find the true love. Take this like short adventure and look around you will see a lot fish in this sea waiting for you to make your life better not worst. Everybody make mistakes, but is so bad when you spend lot of time with a wrong person, with that you will spend your feelings and you will loose yourself and will be much more harder to start new relationship after broken heart. DON'T LOSE THE TIME.
PUT THE PAST BEHIND YOURSELF. LOOK AT THE FUTURE AND THINK POSITIVE.
2007-04-22 06:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than this. Period.
I was in an abusive relationship and I can say from experience that it is possible to re-build your self esteem if you really want to.
I think a lot of women have gone through what you're going through although you feel so alone when you're caught up in it.
It's hard, but I advise you to break off all relationships and give yourself a cooling off period.
Put yourself first. Make yourself the most important person in the world.
Let friends in even though it will take work because you've probably alienated them.
Let family in.
Just love and be loved outside a relationship context.
Then get to know yourself better and you will be much healthier. You will attract a man who will worship you if you take care of your needs.
Good luck. You can do it.
2007-04-22 06:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You answered your own question - you're weak-minded and you're letting them walk all over you. STOP IT!!!! You don't have to be in total control, but neither do they. If they don't see it that way, then you need to get away from them. The old saying "bad love is better than no love at all" is not true. If you can't have a good relationship with a guy, then you need to move on and find someone you can have one with.
2007-04-22 06:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has happened to you in the past that thinks you need this type of users. Take some time off from men and enjoy yourself and learn who you are....then....a good guy will come and you will be glad that you took the time. It's ok to be alone for awhile. I told men that I was taking a year off and it drove them crazy....and the change that has come into my life has been more than interesting....think about taking a few months off.
2007-04-22 06:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After many tears fall from your eyes
A thousand times you ask yourself why
The one guy you love has departed
You're left alone and broken-hearted
Love just comes and goes
How long it's gonna last nobody knows
That's the way love is, baby
That's the way love is, baby
That's how it is
I know you're walkin' down a lonesome road
And your heart is carryin' a heavy load
I know you feel like you ain't got a friend
And your whole world's cavin' in
Ah, but now is the time to be strong
You better forget him now that he's gone
Listen to me, little darlin'
The road of love is rough sometimes
But don't let it get the best of you
I've been hurt by love so many times
I know just what you're goin' through
You wish you were never born
You better forget him now that he's gone
2007-04-22 06:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
sheesh you got ur self in a bit of a pickle there.
but its nothing that cant be fixed i think you need to stand up for your self !
this second guy(who i dont like the sound of. sounds like a dik)
i reon u should leave him n have some fun with friends and u can be single to mingle n just have fun....
2007-04-22 06:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from dating and follow your own goals. Then you will find someone who meshes with you and/or your goals/talents and make sure he is capable of putting the entire world aside to tend to your feelings.
2007-04-22 06:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by AzianAssassin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look thats it just that,,, look ,,the minute your intuition says your 2nd to other things or ppl move on and LOOK for some one who put's you 1st & it shouldn't take weeks just some dates should tell you some indications on future behavior if they really like you and love is possible real love you should see some of this soon they will show it
2007-04-22 06:54:56 · answer #9 · answered by txtx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip on your self. Being alone does not mean being lonely. You need to learn self love, and stop looking for it in others, they are not going to give you what you need to love yourself. And then once you have developed self confidence, self love, someone will find you. Stop looking for love and find it in yourself. Realize you are worthy, we all are. And there is someone out there just for you. God bless****
2007-04-22 06:21:16 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋