i dated this guy for eleven months and everything was going great. we were looking at houses and talking about getting married and having a baby. then on MY BIRTHDAY i caught him cheating on me. i absolutely hated him. ( he left with a bloody nose).he said i always had to do the right thing and he wanted a change. ( i cooked and cleaned and did everything for him) well now hes with another girl and has been since we broke up. and they are now having a baby. now everytime i see him i just wanna run over him with my explorer. he hurt me bad. BTW they are living in the house that WE had picked out. well i just got a job and found out that he works there too. hes always looking at me and smiling. should i be nice to him or just ignore him or what? part of me wants to forgive him but the other part like i said wants to run over him. what should i do?
2007-04-21 23:13:23 · 6 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
does anyone else think his reason for cheating on me was BS?
guys-would you do that to a girl for the same reasons?
2007-04-21 23:25:46 · update #1
Ignore him! If you dont you will regret it.
2007-04-21 23:16:57 · answer #1 · answered by chr_met 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya, u don't say how old u are, but i was shocked to see u thinking of having children so early into a relationship and having no home first. Was it his idea?
U cooked for him, think about it! He wanted a house slave!
Having a baby is not the basis for a relatonship, did u love him? Did u have fun times together?
Really think about the relationship not him, maybe u will see that it was doomed like his present one will be.
Be nice to him at work but be distant, u can cope with this by thinking of his life falling apart in the future as u smile.
Hope this helps Rachel.
2007-04-21 23:29:24 · answer #2 · answered by rachey_tiger 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're working together just be professional with each other which I mean just be polite at least. You don't have to talk to him on a personal level.
2007-04-21 23:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't run over him he'll get squished. Just leave and thank goodness you found out what a jerk he is.
2007-04-21 23:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make as little contact as possible, i no its probly hard cause your probly still in love with him, but what he did was wrong and you have to let go of him. he seems like a ******** anyways, them guys arnt worth all the pain.
2007-04-21 23:24:03 · answer #5 · answered by otiscosy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should smash his face with a hammer and then forgive him...
2007-04-21 23:17:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋