My second year of college is not far from now, I'm gonna be 20 next year(January) I'm still a virgin, all I've done is kiss a girl which was through truth or dare, the girl was ugly, I haven't had a real first date yet, I barely started going to the gym to flatten my chest & stomach so I could develop better self-esteem, man, why does my life have to be this bad?, why do guys have to make the first move?, seriously I just get so jealous & pissed off when I see hot couples kissing & holding hands cause that shows something that I will never experience, why can't just money buy a girlfriend?
2007-04-21 23:11:26 · 9 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
natural----------you need to practice wearing a friendly smile-----see a gal you like? I'm sure you have-----ask her: "What are my chances of getting to know you better?"--(that makes them at ease because it signals they dont have to fear rejection)----above all---------TALK TO THEM----------and when you are comfortable enough--------ask: "Want to Hang Out?"
now lets see where you are going to take them---heres a list I found----I dont like to drink so I recommend hanging out at a shopping mall instead--------Good Luck
Top 10 great places to go on a first date:
1. Coffee house
2. A walk in the park
3. The local diner
4. Brunch
5. Live music
6. Museum
7. Fancy restaurant
8. Comedy club
9. Bar
10. Sporting event
(Source: Happen magazine)
2007-04-28 15:20:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to fix your self esteem from the inside, you can't do it by going to the gym. Learn to be confident by becoming good at the things you do, just a few things at a time, don't try to master everything. I was way past 20 before I had a real girlfriend, and don't worry about your virginity, that will sort itself out, if you are desperate then just go pay for it. Practice just talking to girls first, you will be nervous but after a few times you will be able to go up to anyone. Make friends with female before you start with the girlfriends
2007-04-21 23:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look bro.. 1st of all i would really like to couch you but the thing is i dont know you and i live freaking far. But here is my piece of advice i hope it would help. 1st of all check yourself out, the way your hair is, clothes, shoes you know things you wear and things you say. Make sure what your wearing is the in thing.. dont act like its the 60's or something, and what you say to a girl make sure everything you say to a woman is all about her, say wonderful things to her dont be shy but act cool ok keep a good distance not too close.. trust me you'll get the hand of it.
2007-04-21 23:25:21 · answer #3 · answered by slappn25 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i could % to think of which you haven't any longer had a female pal in view which you have been taking the time to concentration on what replaced into substantial on an identical time as you have been youthful. i think of you at the instant are on the appropriate age to commence finding for a companion. i'm no longer an advise of courting till you are the right age and mature sufficient to assist yet somebody else...something till now it particularly is only inflicting your self undue frustration. i do no longer understand what your non secular association is, yet my advice could be to fulfill young women folk in church communities or at church purposes. There are some severe-high quality young women folk left in this international that are no longer "experienced" the two at your age and that ought to assist the two one in each of you ease right into a courting based first on friendship to work out if any component extra ought to come of it. usually situations God would not positioned that "appropriate" guy or woman into your midst till you're (in His eyes) waiting for that step. don't be so no longer common on your self...all is robust in Gods timing, do no longer rush it yet. good success to you, i'm helpful there is somebody in the international waiting for you only as you're waiting for her!
2016-10-03 09:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im in the same posisiton as you. some poeople fall in love some people dont, maybe you'll get somoene maybe you wont, i'd quit on it and focus on something else, cz for 1 im 20 like you will be. and im in the same spot so theres no need to start now. i'd say quit but thats just me
2007-04-27 05:25:05 · answer #5 · answered by themanthemanfrozen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you why money can't buy a girlfriend....cause the world doesn't work that way!!!!!!!!!the generation now goes for looks.only a little people go for their heart and their looks or personality.but don't worry......you will get one hot chick later for yourself.i guess you just got to wait......peace!
2007-04-21 23:27:23 · answer #6 · answered by hot_babygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked "why can't just money buy a girlfriend?". If money could buy a girlfriend I am sure you would not want her.
2007-04-29 13:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by candle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change your hair style and wear new style cloths and always go such points where girls gathered and try to attract them. You must got succeed.
2007-04-29 21:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by samrat_ashock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ... THERES REALLY NOTHIN U CAN DO BOUT IT :) BUT AM SURE THERES ZUM 1 FOR EVERY 1 SO JUzT WAIT
2007-04-29 21:04:18 · answer #9 · answered by CAT WOMAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋