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my boyfriend is this way....i think that is the main way that we do it. dont get me wrong...theres nothing wrong with it :)
are all guys like this?
is it just so they dont have to do all the work?
what is the reasoning behind this?
as you can see i am curious........:P
2007-04-21 22:46:29 · 17 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for me I like to be on top more then my ole' lady. I guess its cause I like to please her more or it makes me feel like I am pleasing her more that way. She enjoys being on top more so most of the time we do half and half. I would have to say you should ask him on this one. That is the only way you will find out the truth. Good luck and enjoy yourselves.
2007-04-21 23:19:09 · answer #1 · answered by Scottie_E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, with a woman on top it enables her to manouvre so she can have the right bits stimulated. In this position she can get contact with the G-spot and also clitoral stimulation and generally acheive a satisfactory orgasm. It's the same with oral sex, if the girl is on top she can control location and pressure and all the guy has to do is think about speed and timing.
The other thing is it allows the guy to enjoy looking at his partner during the sex act which is a big turn on especially if shes uninhibited and gets into it.
1 more thing, if done right it allows deeper penetration than missionary and the "sliding forward & back" motion rather than up and down feels heaps good for a guy.
2007-04-21 22:56:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons. You can achieve deeper penetration, it allows the woman to do what she really likes to stimulate herself which in turn stimulates the guy, it allows the guy a very good view of the woman's body, the grinding motion as opposed to straight in and out feels really good. It's not just because we're lazy, that does sometimes play a part though.
2007-04-21 23:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it when the girl is the one on top because I'm always afraid I may be laying too hard on her or something to make her uncomfortable. Im 150 lbs and shes 120ish and I'm stronger muscle-wise so she never really squishes me. She is gorgeous though...I'm gonna go call her right now. But its 3:03a.m. I have to wait for her to wake up.
2007-04-21 23:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by AzianAssassin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know everything, but I do know that a woman on top will show you what she likes as far as pressure,and angle.
If he is a good lover, he will make your experience as best as it can get by learning from that.
If next time, he comes up big and gives you a great orgasm, he has learned.
If next time he just lays there, he is lazy.
2007-04-21 23:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are a few reasons, guys are lazy about sex they want it but they don't want to put all there energy into it either, Girls on top means guys lay there and watch the girl do all the work. Also when a girl is on top it provides a deeper penetration, guys feel more pressure on there genitals and like it. And finally, some guys are into domination, girl on top means there not in control anymore.
2007-04-21 22:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by cherry_girl4u_85 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I would say the main reason is because they can look at her body and her movement. men are visually stimulated.
2007-04-21 22:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I like being on top. Dominant role I guess. No offense, maybe your boyfriend is lazy.
2007-04-21 22:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Net Medic 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he just likes you to be on top of things! You go girl yee haw! =<)
2007-04-21 23:00:27 · answer #9 · answered by Sir Grandmaster Adler von Chase 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because alot of guys like it when the girl is in control in the sack. and with the girl on top she can take control of everything
2007-04-21 22:49:37 · answer #10 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋