I had sex with one of my female co-workers . . well more than once to be truthfully, but before doing so, we were only friends and I also mentioned that I did not want to get into a relationship . . . now I feel that she is seeking a relationship with me, and as before i dont want one. I thought she understood that . . nowadays its just me avoiding her . . what can i do to END IT ???
2007-04-21 22:32:35 · 10 answers · asked by Bad Boy with a Gud Heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why end it? just string her along and keep having sex with her until you get tired of it
2007-04-21 22:41:54 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say you have sex with some woman who is not a co-worker. Does that change the relationship with the woman? Yes obviously because you have taken it to the next level. If you want to end it with the chick at work just make sure you tell EVERYONE, including your boss that you banged her and how easy she was about it. Expecially the other guys...
2007-04-21 22:59:22 · answer #2 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're beating your self up over a valueless reason. the in straightforward words time believe between 2 human beings is one hundred% intact is contained in the starting up. From there both human beings could paintings flat out to maintain that believe. once the believe is broken, that's like an egg - it may not in any respect be placed decrease back mutually the way it replaced into. i'm sorry, even if that's over - and it replaced into over the first time she made it undemanding that she replaced into attracted to some different person. You had the fortitude to keep the marriage going, yet you've been spinning your wheels - and that i imagine deep down you knew it. between the hardest issues in a courting is to be unfaithful on your significant different for the first time. such extremely some issues run via your head - you're enamored with the buzz of being with some different person...that's like sneaking round in the back of your dad and mom' decrease back once you've been a baby. there is such extremely some issues to guage. you do not favor to harm your significant different, yet nonetheless, you've your own needs. regrettably, "your own needs" takes center degree and also you act on your fantasies. it truly is the first time. the 2d time, it receives extra accessible, and then the third time, even extra accessible till it receives to the point that you in straightforward words do not care. via this time, the believe has been damaged and the courting is over - that's only a matter of time formerly both one in each of you call it quits. i'm on your section in this element. that's too undesirable it had to ensue this kind.
2016-12-04 10:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex more than once and still not thinking of commitment? I am sorry but I guess for us girls we fall in love sith someone we go to bed with. The unintentional feelings just pop up right before us before we realized it.
Think about it pal, if you really don't have any feelings for her ten have the courage to make it clear with her.
Good Luck!
2007-04-21 22:41:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be honest with this woman and reitterate that you don't want a relationship, and then stop having sex with her to back that up. Maybe she didn't think she would fall for you, but now she has... you can often help how you feel about someone, can you?
Try and be sensitive to her emotions but do let her know that you really mean it.
2007-04-21 22:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tahlula 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her straight out there is no way your having a relationship with her or anyone else.
Guys be aware that women in general are not like us, they cannot detach emotion from sex and can't treat it simply as getting their rocks off in most cases and us idiot men call the ones that can nasty names and question their morality...
2007-04-21 22:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a jerk you are! How dare you get intimate with a woman and leave her hanging! Don't tell me you didn't know better either! If you didn't want a relationship than why did you start one? I tell you why, because you are a selfish jerk that only thinks about himself and his own physical pleasure. Now you reap the consequences. I hope she rips your balls off. You don't deserve to own a pair anyway. Ooooo, is that a little harsh. I hope so.
2007-04-21 22:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by CaTcHmEiFuCaN 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Come right out and tell her. Some girls mistake sex as a commitment.
2007-04-21 22:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you tried the rodeo move yet. I bet that will work.
2007-04-21 22:38:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN YOU MAKE SEX JUST WHİSPER ANOTHER GİRLS NAME
2007-04-21 22:38:03 · answer #10 · answered by severler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋