A lady that is a good friend of mine introduced me to her son (he is 28yrs I'm 24). I've been talking with him on the phone for a month already (we havent met in person yet...unless you consider webcam to be more personal). Well, I live in NY and right now he lives in Florida. He invited me to go visit him this weekend (he paid for the ticket), we really have a connection and I do see us having something really special.
My question is should I have sex with him this weekend or should I wait until we meet the second time????
2007-04-21 21:43:37 · 18 answers · asked by Susy Li 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude i think you were a skanky slut named rosa if you do it!!!!! im putting a chastity belt on you before you leave!!!!
kay love you!!!
2007-04-21 21:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by mel_sophia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, when is the second time you are going to see him?? it could be never! I say you don't decide this quite yet. Base you decision once you meet him in person and actually get to know the guy, he could be TOTATLLY different in person than what you talked to on the phone know what i mean? he's old enough to not play around with women just for poontang. He obviously is interested in something more than that if he's paying for the ticket and wanting to show you a good time. I would have to assume sex is not the first thing on his mind if hes going through all the trouble for you.
2007-04-21 21:49:43 · answer #2 · answered by Drock 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U should wait till u meet the second time.U might feel that u guys have a great connection, as u put it...But if u have sex at your first meeting it wouldn't give a much good impression of yrself.U should know each other better before coming to a decision.
But then again...follow your heart.
good luck:)
2007-04-21 21:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Far out I'm in the same situation, however younger than you two. I personally think you should consider sex the second time, just go there have fun and talk get to know eachother better before you go having sex with him.
Good Luck & Have Fun!!
2007-04-21 21:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by Elley s2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
second time!!! wait to see how the date goes...kissing and touching is cool...if it goes great! but since you are still young...and younger than him...he will probably think higher of you if you do not put out on the first visit...it won't make you look like some kind of cheap fly in escort. take care and have fun...get to know him better before giving the goods...
2007-04-21 21:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should listen to your heart. Wait till you to are together and then if it comes about let your heart tell you what to do. Dont have sex just cause he wants to if he ask. You should only have sex if you both want to. Hope you have a wonderful weekend.
2007-04-21 21:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Scottie_E. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is something you can decide before you go...sometimes things like that just happen, but I wouldn't do it unless you really want to, don't do it just because you're finally meeting and you live far apart.
2007-04-21 21:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. A month? Come on. Have some decency!
Doesn't anyone believe in abstinence anymore?
2007-04-21 21:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey being a man i would say that if u had sex the first time u met him he would think u are to easy and maybe just a dirty gurl so i say no to that wait and if he likes you he would wait to
2007-04-21 21:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by norm m 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Gee, you're trying to decide before you actually see him and find out if the chemistry is real? i don't know...why don't you spend at least a couple of hours with him and see how it goes?
2007-04-21 21:48:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋