one of my sources said that my ex bf my have cheated on me while we were together. its kind of hard to believe he can be very very nice but i dont think he cheated, i know this from personal experience he would not have made a move. how do i confront him about it? how do i determine the truth?
2007-04-21 21:39:31 · 14 answers · asked by help me! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though you might feel hurt or outraged by learning this news, I'd say, let it go, it is no longer important in yor life. He's your ex. Even if you confront him about it, you get nothing out of it other than some wasted time and angry feelings. Just say to yourself, "this is one more reason why my ex is an ex."
2007-04-24 12:06:45 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you are reading into it so much when you guys are not even together anymore. I know news like that can be devastating and a little bit of a blow to the ego but you aren't with him and my best advice would be for you to move on. It's always better to make sure guys don't know just how irritated with them you are. If you can't let go then I suggest bringing it up online maybe? It doesn't matter how you ask, just tell him that you are still friends and when you heard this you were suprised. You want to know that you can trust him as a friend and that your time together was not spent in vain. Before you do any of this though, you should look into yourself and see if you can just let it be.
2007-04-21 21:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by legendarystarrs12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "so and so said that you cheated on me....is that true?" If "so and so" lied....then..."so and so" should be called on it. If your ex did cheat....then it will be out in the open and further closure can pursue. It takes a strong man to stop an aggressive woman. Get to the truth by truth....and if he did cheat, don't get mad, just get on with your life. Hope your days are good.
2007-04-21 21:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um yeah. cheating should not be allowed in any respect. have you ever even have all of those females on your suggestions, how could you think of how they experience approximately their guy messing around with yet another woman...however the whole time on their minds, they think of that the guy particularly likes them. Please placed your self of their shoes, and undergo in suggestions why he's your ex, you're able to desire to comprehend he's already not a sturdy guy.
2016-11-26 20:02:55 · answer #4 · answered by opp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is an ex why do you or should you care now? the person who told you may also just want some drama to happen.
2007-04-21 21:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Bear_Polaroid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said ex-boyfriend right? So leave it alone. It doesn't matter. Get on with your life and let it go.
2007-04-21 21:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have already said he is your ex; let it drop. You have no right to even ask the question. Good luck in the FUTURE!!!!!! God bless!!!
2007-04-21 21:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by the41magnumman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you even care? If he did, then breaking up was a great choice. Ask your source why they are telling you this.
2007-04-21 21:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by orcarius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if he is ur x why are u so worried it not up to you now so just forget it and get on with ya own life
2007-04-21 21:46:33 · answer #9 · answered by norm m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it matter now? hes your ex. so it really shouldn't matter what happened in the past.
2007-04-21 21:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋