All I ever did was love him and treat him with respect and made him as happy as possible. He even told me that he thought I was the perfect woman for him. I felt the same about him. But a couple days ago, after his ex pulled some pretty dirty and manipulative things in order to win him back, he finally caved and dumped me for her.
Why would someone do something like that? This girl dumped him so that she could get back with her ex and when her ex didn't want her, she came crying back to him, but he was already with me, by that time. Then she pulled some pretty low-down, dirty, manipulative, irresponsible, and completely immature things in attempt to win him back. And he gave in. Why? Why would he give up the woman who is everything he's ever wanted, to go back to his ex who treated him like he was nothing but a pretty face and a penis? How, even after his family and friends warned him that it was a mistake, would he make a stupid decision like that? Please help me. I'm lost
2007-04-21 21:37:37 · 2 answers · asked by Abby C 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Classic he doesn't think he is good enough for you. Made yourself to perfect, tisk, tisk! Which is good! Just not for this relationship... I've been there myself, of course she was married.... but lets not get into that this is about you! But the fact is he feels more for her then you, we can say I love you, you love me, kissie, kissie, but when it comes right down to it the actions tell the truth. Also some people don't like to run relationships, which is what you let him do, it makes them insecure and unsure. But with her proubly being the controlling, crazy type just fit his bill. Sorry about that, that is why I'm always telling people love isn't enough.... there is so much more to it! I guess we like to think its just that easy, I know I did before the reality checks set in.... good luck
2007-04-23 08:48:16 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would not seem such as you're so lost. you're greater useful off now which you're nicely rid of him. the only reason he could circulate lower back together with her is by using the fact she's as low as you pronounced and he's have been given no suggestions of his very own. those 2 are a pair that beat an entire living house and that they are meant for another. What do you go with to wager that she dumps him lower back and he comes sniveling lower back to you. won't you have the final chortle then. by that element you would be wiser and have moved on. So count extensive type your advantages and comprehend which you have emerged a greater useful individual. unlike those 2 clot headed clowns. wait and notice them activate one yet another-lower back!- and reason one yet another not something yet soreness and distress.
2016-11-26 20:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by opp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋