Whoo..I'm so hurt right now..but anyhow I met this guy at my gym he was a personal trainer, and basically he asked me out when I intially met him, but I didn't take him up on his offer, so a few months past, and I asked him to join me at starbucks, he told me he was busy, then we put it off and he told me he was too broke, so thogught to myself, okay I'm not messing with tim because he['s flaky, so i see him at the gym about three weeks ago and he asks me out again...and he calls me a few days later and tells me his uncle and close friend died, and that when he sees me at the gym, he'll let me know when we can hang out again..so a few days laster I see him, and he text messages me, asking me "How come i didn't speak to him? And I'm thinking Huh...but you were training? So today,.I just ask him flat out if there is anyone at the current moment that he likes more than a friend" and he tells me that there is and she's his top myspace friend..so i ask him if he likes me more than a frie
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and he tells me that "He can't say that he do" and goes on to say he isn't attracted to me in that way, but does say that he does find me to be very good looking and cool, but he just doesn;t see me in that way...so I'm feeling like crap. what should I do?
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I know he's 25, still lives at home with hos parents, and is a sunday school teacher..but he is definetly is a good catch don't you think?
2007-04-21 20:00:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
He was politely telling you...he's not interested.....go elsewhere... he told you the truth, leave him alone (romantically)
2007-04-21 20:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this guy is a good catch at all, in fact I would throw him back if I did happen to catch him!!!! You guessed it when you said flakey!!! I have to ask you, why would you want to waste your time with someone who is not attracted to you in "that" way? I think what you need to do is stop going to where this place is that you keep seeing him. Don't respond to his text messages, emails, phone calls or anything else, and spend some serious time getting over him! Trust me, if you continue to like him like you do and continue to hang out with him, knowing that he is not interested in you, you are eventually going to have to end it for your own sanity and the longer you wait is the harder it will be. And, I know from experience that the best way to get over someone completely, is to cut them off all together with no contact whatsoever! Believe me, it is really hard at first, but as time goes on you will be feeling so much stronger and better about yourself! Good luck, and I hope whatever decision you make, I hope the best for you!!! Bye!
2007-04-21 20:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by zaytox0724 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, turning out to be a member of a young ones team is robust for a toddler. Even a non secular one, if the youngster is already non secular. Public faculties have golf equipment for the non-athletic kinds, if the youngster could be interested in extra secular activities.
2016-10-03 09:25:57 · answer #3 · answered by aharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A sunday school teacher, living with his parents does not qualify for a great catch. Move on.
2007-04-22 02:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by yiotadelta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is a "bad" person, as much as he seems confused about what he wants. I think he's trying to politely blow you off. Why would you want to date a guy who's too broke to go to Starbucks and still lives with his parents anyways?
2007-04-25 19:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by msbehavenjj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn woman. yeah thats a catch, but just try your best to make him interested if you really really like him that much. try to get out of the friend zone :) which usually you get outta that zone by hanging out with him more then he will start to really get to know you!
2007-04-21 20:04:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lina x3 Pete Wentz is the sex! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think he's a good catch.
He didn't take the initiative and blamed you for it. This is a boy, not a man.
2007-04-21 21:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by minuteblue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he makes u feel bad!! if he wus interested, he wud care how u felt, an trust u an not blame u outright liek that, that wus imature ♥
2007-04-21 21:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my town we throw those back 2 grow up that,s not a keeper
2007-04-21 20:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by crengle60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a catch, you would have caught him.
Get ready to be used, you're asking to be.
2007-04-21 20:29:28 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋