We had a 3 year relationship going. but she broke it off about 2 weeks ago. ive lost 13 lbs over it so far and i keep trying to tell her how much i love her but she keeps saying she doesnt want to talk about it. she stated that we were ment to be together. She started hanging out with some new friends from work around 2months ago and she asked me if i wanted to come and hang out and i didnt want to she was upset about it. and everything just went downhill from there. when i ask her if she still loves me on the phone she says she is gunna hang up.
what am i supposed to do to get the love of my life back?
2007-04-21 19:46:43 · 14 answers · asked by justin s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am soo in love with her is there ne advise on how to get her back? instead of just leting her go
2007-04-21 19:53:28 · update #1
the last couple days ive left bunches of rosed just inside her room window think this would help. shes not the one to charge me for breaking and entering or stalking
2007-04-21 19:58:07 · update #2
thats sad but to be honest it doesn't sound like she wants to get back together. maybe she met someone else. its not good to be so depressed that you lose so much weight. i know from experience how bad a broken heart can be but you just need to remember that life must go on even if you feel it can't without that person. when my first serious relationship ended i handled it pretty much the same way as you are. i lost a lot of weight, i couldn't eat or sleep or even think straight all i wanted to do was get him back but eventually after all i did for him he still just wanted to be friends i realized that he wasn't worth it and i sucked up my sorrow and moved on with my life and when i moved on finally he changed his mind and wanted me back but i had already met my hubby by then so i told the guy to stick it and it felt really good. anyways it will take time to heal but if your meant to be with her she will come back to you but in the mean time don't stress so much. there is a big world out there so enjoy it. good luck :)
2007-04-21 19:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. Odds are you are wasting time. If she is not interested, then she is not interested. If you keep it up, she'll report you for stalking. Stop being such a wuss. Take some time off. Learn to appreciate yourself more. Have some fun. Enjoy being single. Hang out with your friends. Rediscover who you are! And keep busy. The busier you are, the less you'll pine away like some little girl waiting for her dead puppy to come back to life. If you two are really meant to be together, then you can reconsider it later when things have cooled off. She'll come back to you. If you give yourself the chance, however, you'll probably find that you're better off. You two didn't break up for no reason. If YOU are the reason, then you can learn from your mistakes and be a better person for it. Then perhaps if you give yourself some time, you'll be ready to go out there and find someone that appreciates you. Good luck!
2007-04-22 02:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry... but you dont get her back, 3 year relationships ending are always hard, but when it ended it ended for a reason. it doesnt matter how much you love someone they have to love you back in order for a relationship to work.
what this comes down too is actually very simple. YOU have to stop worrying about how much it hurts, and how much you want her back. move on, aside from what you think its not going to change, even if you were to get back together nothing would ever be the same as it was before... and you know you dont want that.
oh and dont ask her if she loves you, if you were the one letting her go, would you want to hear that? my guess is that simply letting you go after 3 years was hard enough for her dont try to make her feel bad to try and get your way... it just makes you look bad.
2007-04-22 02:59:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby you have grown apart. if she won't even talk to you about it she is completely over it take it from a girl who once upon a time broke a heart or two. the only tome we want to talk about it is if we know we made a mistake or we only did it to convince you of something apparently she is not the love of your life because i think that god intended more for us than someone that wants to hang up on us
2007-04-22 02:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by gcgmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't get it back! What you can get is beat up, stalking and harassment charges etc... Stop now while you are in control! Yea it hurts, we all been there, you just need time. What ever made you happy before her is what you should be focusing on! you'll be alright.
2007-04-22 02:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude it obvious she dnt love u any more.. Its either she found some one else or she cheated on you and is felling guilty. Honestly i hate when my girlfriend have alot of friends girls are wicked and they probably hooked her up on one of there friends or brother,cousin so forth. I fell ur pain but fuccck her dude find someone else i know how u feel it happen to me before but when i found my new girlfriend my ex was completely off my mind....... show this BIIITCHH that u dnt care anymore
2007-04-22 03:44:31 · answer #6 · answered by Berto G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a loser, and let her go. There are plenty of ladies out there and for a man to lose weight over a woman is pathetic, unless you are fat and ugly and have no hope. Then get used to internet porn.
2007-04-22 02:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by ThELaWMan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
well id say its tuf man..but id say u chek really y shes been avoiding u.
iv been in a relatioship 4 2.6 years
brok up some months back. after i got back with m friends i lert dat there are more dan enuf girls with da same qualities as he. bcoz she kept me bounded 2 her i didnt notice..
so maybe ur girl realizd u arent compatible2...
ask da real reason..keep in tuch with her..
never hate ok..be a good friend.
ull find more dan enuf gals lik her
takes time thou..
tc man
2007-04-22 03:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by virusde101658 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from the sound of her responses she wants some space and time to think and figure herself out. also you need to think about how to deal with yourself if you two arent going to be together. its okay to still love and long but dont lose weight over it! atleast try to find another.
2007-04-22 02:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by pinksonthewing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her off. it she does not wants to be with you. You are a man strong enough not like girls. have friend ship with some good girl from a good family. you have a long way to go. if she good and from a good family she will be with you life long. she will be mother of you kids.
2007-04-22 02:53:45 · answer #10 · answered by google_700 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋