My ex-bf still contacts me even though HE was the one who ended it and it has been over for one year!!! He was 25, I'm 20 and he was first kiss and bf. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save myself for marriage. He even told me he wants to hangout and see me every one in awhile? But why? He contacts me mostly by msn.
So guys what is the point of still keeping in contact with an ex..?
2007-04-21 19:31:53 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He still wants to claim your virginity tell him to not bother you any more the past is the past.
2007-04-21 19:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to answer this, I'm not a guy. But, I've been through that before. There are four possibilities:
1.) Although you did not have sex, you still fooled around and he still wants some a-s-s.
2.) He's a sensitive guy and if he has been with you long he generally wants you around and genuinely still wants to be friends with you.
3.) He's afraid you might cry if he cut you off cold turkey.
4.) He's greedy. Run the other way fast.
Alright, so what you can do is not spend time being puzzled and just go with the flow. Note: If you guys ever hang out again, under no circumstances put out - without having a chat with him. You'll turn out to be friends with benefits if you do put out and I'm not sure you can handle that if you are already analyzing him casually chatting with you.
Bottom line: If he still likes you and he can't be upfront with you and it's been a year - he's not worth losing time thinking about and he's a p-u-s-s-y. So, get another hobby. Also, general rule - 3 years difference or less - for your first kiss at least!
Good Luck.
2007-04-22 02:45:26 · answer #2 · answered by Meng S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes its the memories we miss. If we shared alot of special memories with a girl then even though we may have found someone else we still miss the memories we had with an ex. I still talk to some of my exs from time to time cuz we are still friends and we both have moved on.
2007-04-22 02:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by PW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't stick with him. You know why? Because everything will hit you right on the face. I had this same situation, but it was my girlfriend and her ex. Her ex tried to be "friends" with her again... but right behind my back he was trying to marry her... that's right marry her. That idiot. I gave him a piece of my mind and told him to *freak* off. After a lot of warnings and public announcements about his stupidity, he finally stayed away from my girlfriend and I. Thank goodness. Because I would've literally beat the crap out of him. So if you are planning to have a boyfriend anytime soon, you better think about it. Would you want a man who is talking to an ex? It would be weird because "love" was in it.
2007-04-22 02:37:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sir Guitarist 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and feels comfortable talking to you. I still have x-wives I talk to.
Depending what's on my mind that I want to share with another and get questions answered, I might call up a friend, a daughter, x-wive #1 or x-wife #2.
You need to find another guy as this is really a waste of your time.
2007-04-22 02:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cou;d learn to find other things in him that would make him a good friend and besides his other gfs will ask you 4 advice and stuff and its just good if you r the guys friend it dont have to go far into another relationship jsut give him a chance he may be a reallygreat friend in the end
2007-04-22 02:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not my gf from highschool that broke up with me and I dated her for 1 half years and i still talk to her. Were actually pretty damn good friends we talk to each other about a lot of stuff. I mean if you jsut cant stand him then don't talk to him!
2007-04-22 02:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by Lush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to be this way, but he is trying to keep the door open to get some. He wants to I didn't even know girls like you existed.
2007-04-22 02:45:29 · answer #8 · answered by lostinalamos 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do ya have some else; does he; do you need friends does he? eat some chicken and relax more friends are always good and they are a type of wealth
2007-04-22 02:36:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋