my girlfriend likes me to give her backrubs a couple times a week but it really hurts my hands. Is it possible there is something wrong with me because it hurts my hands so bad when I massage her back. Also, its not arthritus, im only 27.
2007-04-21 16:11:01 · 9 answers · asked by kristin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, don't do stuff that hurts. Send your girlfriend to a masseuse until you get your hands figured out.
Next, go see a doctor.
Finally, write us a note and tell us how things worked out.
2007-04-21 16:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Stuart 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unless your girlfriend is a Rose Stem or Porcupine, I would say you don't know what you are doing. Read a book or watch a video about massage and backrubs. They should show you what it is you are doing wrong.
Good luck!
2007-04-21 17:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably using the muscles in your hands more than you're used to. (Good job! That means you're trying :) )
I'd say alternate with tickling it, get a motorized machine to help you out (one that you rub around on her back) or another one of those massage toys. Or maybe you could get your hands used to it by simply continuing to do it.
No there's nothing wrong with you!
2007-04-21 16:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Massaging someone will ALWAYS cause pain in the hands...it' not you.
No guy 'likes' to give back rubs. My guy has NEVER.
He'll rub my feet after a 16 hour shift, but he does it hesitantly(I never ask).
Girls like to get rub downs, but very few guy I know like to give them, and it's probably because their hands cramp up.
Your girl is lucky that you suffer thru the pain to provide her with pleasure.
2007-04-21 16:17:46 · answer #4 · answered by Teel H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh i know what you are talking about! my hands hurt when i rub my bfs back! =( maybe you should not massage it for a long time, and try not to pressure your hands too much. maybe she can give YOU a hand massage after you rub her back lol
2007-04-21 16:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 03:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try a massager.
2007-04-21 16:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by Bo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe start doing some hand exercises to increase your hand strength. nothing sexier then a girl that can crush coke bottles with her bare hands!
2007-04-21 16:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Technical Difficulties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you finish i could use a back rub to!
2007-04-21 16:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋