I guess I will just be alone all my life. Why do women keep telling me no? Why do they ask about my work?

Answer 1

I'm female and I have men asking me what work I do, alot of it is just general conversation. Sometimes women can be golddiggers but you wouldn't want one of them anyway would you? You probably havn't met the right woman yet, it can take years to find the right person.
I find that the men most women (including myself) go for are just men that have a healthy self-confidence and self-acceptance. Who are capable of being strong without being a male chauvinist or controlling. Someone who we can talk to and laugh with.
One of the most annoying turnoffs in a man are those with "I'm not a real man" complexes where they fret about their income, penis size etc. Men make the mistake of thinking women like b******s but its not that, they just want someone who is self-confident who they can have a good time etc.
My advice is just to get out there and enjoy life, surround yourself with things you feel passionate about and keep challenging yourself. Learn self-acceptance and get some advice from female friends to help you with date techniques etc. The cliche that people meet their soulmate when they're not looking and having a good time is very true.
Don't lose heart; go out there, be a good person and live your life and the right girl will come along at the right time.
Goodluck.

Answer 2

Let me help you on this one. If you don't cheer up and become more of a confident person and love yourself, then you will be a lonely person for life.

There are countless reasons why women tell you no and reject you. The biggest reasons are: 1) They are allready taken, 2) They are not interested in you in that way, and 3) They aren't looking for anyone right now. There is excellent news for you. There are a whole lot of women on this planet. Some of them whould be dying to meet you. Until the last woman on the face of the earth turns you down, then there is always hope of finding someone.

The reason why someone ask you about your work is because they want to know if you are stable and mature enough to hold down a job and could provide for a future family. They want to know what are your goals in life. Lastly, they want to know if you are working at something more meaningful.

Answer 3

They probably keep telling you no because you are a pessimist. Be optimistic, don't dwell on the fact that you are single, and just do things that make you happy. The right girl will come along and like you when it's the right time.

Answer 4

your job defines who you are....there is nothing worng with being alone, at least your not lonely. So, what women tell you know...there is a woman who will say yes.