I have known this guy for about a week...this already sounds bad lol...anyway, i met him a week ago...we have hung out twice and talked constantly on the phone, text or IM since I met him. The only time we are not talking is when we are asleep. How do I know when its right to sleep with him? I have good feelings about him but have been burned in the past and I need so advice here! Thanks so much!
2007-04-21 15:24:25 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You say you have been burned in the past. I think when your text messaging this guy.... you should mention that.... you should say that I'm very interested in maybe taking this a bit further.... something we would both like. But I've had some bad experiences..... what can he tell you that would make you feel more comfortable with him to go further and how is he better protect your emotions.
This might give him a little test to see how he reacts. If you like his answers and feel comfortable. Then ask him how many partners he has had. Why did they break up? If he won't tell you... then it may be time to move on. But if these upfront and you feel good about what he says.... telling him to get his condom ready.
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2007-04-22 17:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This might soudn a little old school for you. BUT DONT" HAVE SEX UNTIL YOU GET MARRIED!!! I had 3 partners and i ended up pregnant. iT was an unwanted pregnancy, and the guy turned out to be a total jerk, he lied, he cheated. At first i thought he was the answer to my prayers and was going to marry him, because just like you, we would talk constantly on the phone, text, all that stuff. he seemed so sweet. But it takes a logn logn time for you to get to know how a person really is. just wait, is really worth it!! WAIT!
2007-04-21 15:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? can you tell in a week if this person has aids? can you tell after a week if this person is going to love you forever......or does that not matter to you....if you are under 20 then someone should have talked to you about waiting but if you are over 20 then you need to think about what is important in this life, stop going on what feels good and think about the type of person you want to be.....God bless you and keep you.......from doobie's wife
2007-04-21 15:39:37 · answer #3 · answered by doobie true 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see
2007-04-21 15:28:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've known this guy for a week & already you're going to jump in the sack? Seems like I've heard a term or two for that...
2007-04-21 15:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by infidel-louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down . your buring the wick .
go out on some real dates make out some .
hold back for awhile a month maybe less if you want but dont set yourself up for a crash.
2007-04-21 15:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there will always be another boy that you might fall in love but wait til you married.that is the right time
2007-04-21 15:33:13 · answer #7 · answered by BREANNA R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your legs closed and panties on for a few more days anyway...
2007-04-21 15:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Kia A 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋