Hey guys, this girl at work i think really likes me, but i dont know what to do, i like her heaps aswell. Basically i started liking her just all of a sudden, i used to be able to talk to her properly, but now when i talk i am kind of nervous when i approach...we catch each other out looking at one another alot now, and shes always got a smile on her face when she looks my way, but sometimes she just kind of walks pass without looking at all????.....also shes really polite when i talk to her, but we both just talk about work(and strictly work), and then its nothing. so all in all our conversations last around a minute at the most. I can talk to her girlmate right next to her no worries, but not her, she can probably sense that aswell....i dont know what to do ppl, please help out, im going to be working in a different enviroment very soon, so wont see her as often too, so i dont wnna miss an oppurtunity.....i need some subtle hints that can let her know?
2007-04-21 10:34:19 · 11 answers · asked by d p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Today she talked a little more(strictly work again), but she does have a smile on her face when she does it.Shes really shy, as she doesnt talk to much people, only the ones closest to her. Im shy too....but can mingle fine with almost anyone else!
2007-04-21 10:34:29 · update #1
If she's shy then she's probably waiting for you to make the first move..try to talk about something other than work like what she did last weekend...what she's doing later. If she only talks to the people closest to her and she's talking to you then it's a start...but just try to talk about more than work
2007-04-21 10:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by LostBlonde 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To tell how you feel about her you have to let her know that she can be save around you. Baseicly just be there for her. And if I was you I would tell her how I felt and if your to shy to say it then write her a note and either give it to her or leave it at her desk. Somewere were she will find it easy. You could also flirt with her a little. Good Luck!!! ^_^
2007-04-21 17:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by Panic! lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she wants to go to a movie why would you go to coffee what will you to talk about coffee haha joking but talk to her about a show see how she acts outside of work you don't know maybe she is just so into her work she doesn't even notice that she likes you or that you like her...SMILE don't break her heart sweetie
2007-04-21 17:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ablebaby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it does sound like she really likes you, maybe you could try talking to her about other things rather than just work like what she has been up to on the weekend or if she is going on holiday this year, and tell her what you have been up to, that may show her you are interested in her as a person and not just at work. good luck.
2007-04-21 17:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! She likes you too. Ask her for lunch or a drink.
Be really interested in her, so ask her where she lives, what she does in the weekend, her hobbies, her family, etc. etc. Don't you want to know more about her? If you're really interested you'd like to know all about her. Good Luck.
2007-04-21 17:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hanya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont make it obvious, but in a way, stalk her. see how she communicates with other guys and if its different then they way she does with u, she likes u. if its the same, shes just a freindly person. and try a differnt topic. go out with a few of ur friends and be like "hey, i need some more people to come with me tonight and i was wondering if u wanted to go, if ur not busy of course". if she says yes...YAY U!
2007-04-21 17:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by itz_erika_yo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you ask her to lunch and just say that it has to deal with business. Also, bring some back up friends(make them sit at another table or something)
if you can't at least ask her for lunch i don't know
Just be a man dont be shy
prepare for a longer conversation
bring things up
2007-04-21 17:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by luv2dusky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! just ask her to go to lunch with you one day or when you pass each other atleast say "hi how r you" or something like that & if she stops ask how her weekend went etc then take it from there, you could even ask if she wanted to go for a drink after work or something
good luck
2007-04-21 17:38:47 · answer #8 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im a girl and by the sounds of it she likes you too. if i catch the eye of i bloke i like i smile. you just gotta go for it and talk about something non work related. before its too late. good luck loved up one!
2007-04-21 17:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for coffee
2007-04-21 17:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋