2007-04-21 09:40:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Is he available? I guess the first thing I would wonder about is if he's gay too.
If he's not, it might be best if you found someone else to date.
Sounds incredibly frustrating! You might even consider moving or switching jobs if you feel you have to, but that would be extreme.
2007-04-21 10:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Shrieking Panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the first things you can do is to step-back and view the situation. Look at this for what it is - an attraction - and walk away from the belief that this is "love" because it isn't. Find some other interests for a month or two to keep you busy and to think about when you are tempted to think about this man you admire.
Sounds like he is not admiring you back???
2007-04-21 18:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same thing straight people do...like the other person said hang around them and see if they give off any signals. Are you openly gay? If you are then he probably knows what he is getting in to, if not he might only consider you as a friend. Maybe if you trust him as a friend you could ask him if he is against being aquantances of homosexual people...if he says no , then maybe the next step he might find that attractive. Homosexuals have it tough, not only do you have to find someone who is gay, but then you must find a gay person that you/he is equally attracted to. I respect your fight and glad you know who you are...now , go get um!!!
2007-04-21 18:54:41 · answer #3 · answered by steelgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question: Are you male or female? If male then why fight the feeling? (song like that somewhere). Let it go where it goes. Maybe nowhere...maybe somewhere. UNLESS he's already attached and by all means you mustn't challenge that situation. I'm sure you're an adult and can handle your actions. Ok now if you're female...perhaps you are 'not' as gay as you think. Just a thought.
2007-04-21 17:01:50 · answer #4 · answered by OMGiamgoingNUTS 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't believe anyone can control how we feel. What we can control is how we act upon our feelings. We all come across people we are attracted to that we can not be with a one time or another. You have to do what is right.
2007-04-21 16:52:02 · answer #5 · answered by Krystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋