First i would like to say thank you in advance for your time.I am 23yrs old realtor,My problem is that i have been single for 3yrs.If i go out guys would always give me the looks,smile,even girls would look at me,but i cant make a boyfriend. My mom said i come to heavy on guys,because i am young i have a nice job,i drive a nice car and i have 2 phones hanging on me and it kinda gives the message that i am out of their league:-(,,,or i maybe high maintance...which i am not..i like to take care of my own expenses and i dont like guys to be spending their money on me. Its kinda againt my dignity and ego.lol...what should i do:-(???
2007-04-21 09:05:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tell you what, if you live in LA. You can make me your boyfriend and I'll pay for my stuff and you can pay for yours.
2007-04-21 09:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by jjsingh97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all get off your high horse maybe they see you as a stuck up snob and would rather find someone that is a little more down to earth. Plus your mo is right alot of men feel intimidated by a strong willed focused lady such as yourself and well you having a better job doesn't help.
I think maybe when you go out leave one cell phone at home and well make it a part to show your nice. Leave the whole designer crap in the closet, dress down and just be yourself rather then the striving realtor your off the clock have fun!
2007-04-21 09:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Approach guys and make sure you don't have a big ring on that might make it look like you're married.They might feel like they are out of your league and/or that you wouldn't be willing to go for anyone who isn't on the same financial level.I know I would be hesitant to approach a woman who had all that because I don't but,Approach guys,and if you either get the impression that's how they feel or they say it,Then tell them what you are looking for and what's important to you.It does matter if they make good money for themselves,because you don't want to become someones "SugarMommy",But let them know you are looking for love,first and for most.Communication is always best.
2007-04-21 09:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe u r looking in the wrong places or 4 the wrong kinda guy. Or you r looking too hard. When u stop actively trying to find someone to be with, somebody always comes along unexpectedly. Sometimes what we think we want isn't what we want at all.
2007-04-21 09:12:56 · answer #4 · answered by ftownsfinest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may intimidate them because you are successful (good for you), just try to be yourself, don't dwell on how successful you are. Don't go to high flying places, don't slum it, go to places where you feel comfortable. Going to to places where your colleagues go can often put them off, as they either may be jealous, or know of your background and success, get rid of one of the phones and turn the other one off when you you are socializing.
2007-04-21 10:12:44 · answer #5 · answered by whyme? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait till you are old and no one want you . then you won't keep saying " its knida odf against my dignity and ego LOL "
2007-04-21 09:09:37 · answer #6 · answered by the_road_i_am_on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋