I'm almost 14, and I've never had a boyfriend yet. Is it weird? Is it because I'm ugly or werid? I do also go to a girl's only school, and I don't have a lot of guy friends. What should I do?
2007-04-21 09:01:33 · 41 answers · asked by curious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds perfectly normal to not have a boyfriend when you go to an all-girl's school and don't meet many boys. You sound like you would like to meet some boys. Do you have a local skating rink, park, or other place young people get together and meet up? Good luck.
2007-04-21 09:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by whereRyou? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im 13 and i have to tell you. I never had a boyfriend before and sometimes i feel left out but on those days when the girls come into my school/class and i see them crying because they're boyfriend broke up with them, i giggle a bit. Because everyone is always calling me Lesbian and other stupid names for not having a boyfriend yet. Look i can tell you those 11, 12 and 13 year old girls are stupid. Once they get a boyfriend they think that they're the best people in the world and i hate it. Relax, your guy will come around and he'll be better then anyone elses. A song i listen to when people are being stupid about it is Average Girl by Barlow Girls
2016-05-20 04:34:23 · answer #2 · answered by amada 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it weird?? Please! I'm 14, I've never had a boyfriend. And I'm weird to some people, but I don't really care because I'm happy being the way I am. To be honest, going to an all girls school definitely has something to do with it all. Including the fact that you don't have many guy friends. But that doesn't mean you should just rush into dating, just because to see other people doing it. Your not them.
I personally think people start dating way too young this day 'n age. So be happy that you haven't yet. I mean you hear all the bad things that people say, right? about relationships, and having their heart broken 'n all of that, why do you want to date? Please don't tell me it IS because you see other people do it??
Just wait, and be happy without the heart brake, you hear so much about. Don't worry about getting in a relationship, because a lot of bad, can happen, and you don't need that at your age. Trust me on this, when a guy you want to date, for the right reasons comes along, you'll be happy he was your first boyfriend. You'll be happy you waited. Just like when it comes to having sex, wait.
2007-04-21 09:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Twili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll tell you this: i never had a boyfriend until i was 17 (and he a bit older so more mature than younger boys who may not appreciate you - yet) AND have been quite successful since, if i may say so myself (not that I always had whoever I wanted, but there have been many guys who liked me which proves I wasnt weird). My point is, at school it's difficult to interact with boys and make boy friends and consequently boyfriends, when you get out there it's much easier and you meet a lot of different people and find the right one for you. at school your choices and chances are very restricted i think - it depends on the school of course.
and for the ignorant person who said you are ugly - well yeah, if horny schoolboys will only want to date something approaching blond (real or fake) with size D breast who dress up at school as if it's a club, then yeah a normal and really beautiful girl does not stand a chance...
or if your school has only 10 boys in total like my high school did :P
2007-04-21 09:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by lx3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not weird that you have not had a boyfriend yet! You are only 14. Well, try to get to know guys, through some of your other friends, that is usually a good way of meeting guys. Trust me, you will meet someone special some day. That day when the right guy comes along, you will feel it, and a few "crushes" before that, will probably come along. Enjoy it!
2007-04-21 09:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing weird about that, at 14 you should be still helping out at home, your mother, and siblings, hobbies, and there is plenty of time ahead to have boyfriends. Just make the best of a girls' school where there are fewer distractions and you can concentrate on your studies, to get into a good university or technical school later. You are not weird. You are refreshing.
2007-04-29 08:10:15 · answer #6 · answered by Tinribs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that girls your age are always worrying about boys? Youre only 14. RELAX! You have a whole lifetime ahead of you. I suggest you focus on your studies instead. A boy wont get you success, only an educated mind can. Things come in their time. Just be patient and dont think youre weird. We're all different. Think yourself as being unique. Whenever the time comes just know that boy should feel very honored to have you.
2007-04-21 09:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would think that its not a bad thing ur just looking for the right guy that will really really care about u. I got my first bf in 4th grade and now his is a total jerk about like everything. I am sorry but u should try and get to know some other people start being a little bit more open to new things and let ur self free thats what everyone that i know does
2007-04-29 06:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r 14!!
some people start to have boyfriends at a young age!
some dont!
u r not ugly or weird or anything!
u just havn't found a good guy yet!
do not get upset over this! you r 14!
you r only young!
so dont worry
x
2007-04-29 01:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 14 almost in high school and I haven't had a boyfriend yet although I almost had one but he had just broken up with some girl I didn't know about. Its normal.
2007-04-29 07:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋