I found out later that he had decided that he broke up with her, without actually telling her they broke up. He was already sleeping with me, when she thought they would get back together and would call him all the time.
Is it cheating?
2007-04-21 06:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it dosent sound very honest of him if he didn't really say to her that they had broken up, but hey you got him now!
I would not go as far to call it cheating. Did you know about her at that point in time?
2007-04-22 04:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by nageotte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's cheating. Because he decided in his mind they were broken up, doesn't make them broken up...until you make that clear with the other person(s) involved, you're still in a relationship.
Sounds like perhaps he wanted to make sure things were going to work with you, before ending the other situation...not kewl.
2007-04-21 06:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is only cheating if they had a good relationship and she was nice and he was doing it behind her back and having nice conversations on the phone. If their relationship was bad and she was nasty then it's not cheating.
2007-04-21 06:29:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's pretty well impossible to know what went on with someone else's relationship, and as they say all is fair in love and war. The past is the past, and there's only one question you need to answer now.
The question is: do you trust him?
2007-04-21 06:31:39 · answer #5 · answered by doovinator 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating
2007-04-21 06:57:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me he was somewhat a coward to not tell her that he was moving on.
In his mind no. In her mind yes.
Now the important question is, will he do it again?
2007-04-21 06:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by The Queen Has Spoken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was very close to cheating, it was certainly cheating
in her opinion...
2007-04-21 06:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-04-21 06:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! you better HOPE he doesn't do that to you!!
2007-04-21 06:26:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋