last night i went to a stripp club. When i got there this one girl came up to me and said hi. After that she was looking at me the whole time she was on stage. now ever when i was far from the stage the whole night she keeped smiling at me. After two hours i got a lap dance from her. it was my first lap dance and man it was cool. but then after our time was up she keep talking to me. the club was now closed and we're still talking. she was telling me how cute i was and asking me what my full name was and where i live and work. I am little confuse, is this normal for a stripper to act. also the thing was i was not tipping as much as the other people at the table were some guys were tipping five dollars at a time but she still gave me the most attention. it was just weird that she asked me those questions. Do i have a chance with this girl. She was saying i was the cute and a gentle man. and said she feels like she made a new friend.
2007-04-21 05:49:22 · 20 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now that she knows your name (and you only know her stage name), wait until she blackmails you for some event which didn't occur. While I believe there are probably "nice strippers" out there, it is generally a seedy underside of our society. It may work out and you will sweep her away from her current lifestyle, but that is unlikely to occur.
2007-04-21 05:54:42 · answer #1 · answered by neurodoc68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little flirtation is always fun but I would be very leary. Asking you personal information smells like a scam getting ready to happen. Something just doesn't seem right. You have to remember that the sole job of a stripper is to con men to give them money and they use sex as a way to tease men into thinking that they want them and being really flirtatious thus the men drool and give up their paychecks.
I am a little worried that she wanted to know your full name, where you live and work, that isn't typical. Sure a first name and where you work but extended information of the above is strange. Also she incorporated sex into the equation by giving you a lap dance. Something just doesn't seem right here and I would be really careful in the future. Try waiting a few weeks and then go back to the club to see how she reacts. Don't contact her during that time frame either. And then trust your gut feelings as to what to do next.
Good Luck
2007-04-21 05:58:43 · answer #2 · answered by Spyder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok take it from some who has dated a stripper.
1. Yes this is a trick some girls/clubs use.
2. If you really think you had serious interest you should go back in when she was working....now remember that she is going by a stage name but you can ask the VIP guy if she is working by her stage name. Then ask here if she would like to meet for coffee at Denny's after her shift and set the time and date. (If she ask you for money to cover her night then she is only interest in money)
3. Warning to the wise....95% of girls in strip clubs have some sort of problem. They were raped, or molested or they are just are slow or mal-adjusted. There is 5% doing it for school or supporting a family but that will be 99% of there excuses so you have to be careful to asses as you date.
2007-04-21 06:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Big Stan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It could be a ploy, but I have been seeing a stripper who pursued me after I got a lap dance. She couldn't care less if I ever bought another dance from her. I think it's entirely possible that she is into you. Keep your guard up, but ask her out if you are interested.
I would watch out for drugs too.
2007-04-25 03:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by bulova6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA...friend, I hate to say it...yeah she wants you...she wants your money. Strippers stare at one guy, cuz she knows what you got, and when she knows what you got, and you go for her, she'll eventually know what you ain't got. lol
She was probabley trying to work a little deal in on the side such as to make a little more money, you know at your home in the "rompty romp".
Friend...I have to admit it...but I can't imagine marrying a woman that was a stripper. All of my friends would be drooling, and I'd be so jealous. Plus...I want my wife home by 2:00 A.M. lol
good luck.
2007-04-21 05:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by billy_spell 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
In the confines of a club I don't trust strippers at all. We are like single serving friends (Thumbs up if you love Chuck too).
Now if a girl, who happened to be a stripper, started acting like that to me at the Grocery store then that would be another story.
2007-04-21 05:53:19 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
you just don't know when a girl is hiting on U right cuz I dont know how else to spell it out 4 U and just because she is a stripper dont mean she cant like anybody she probably saw something in U that she really liked and I guess it wasnt U R
money
2007-04-21 05:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Valley Girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sorry dude, thats a common practice at strip clubs to lure the newbies back night after night.
2007-04-21 05:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants to get to know you and wants you as a friend or mate, she will. Don't you do anything. Let her find what she is looking for. Remember it's under suspicious circumstances so don't do anything. Just wait for her.
2007-04-21 05:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might work as a stripper but she is still human afterall. Perhaps she just 'click' with you and want to know you better?
2007-04-21 05:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Raeka 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋