why did God made the life of men much easier as compared to women?

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asked by deepa s

Answer 1

That's not necessarily the case in the right relationship...
In any case, that is not what God intended. Women are His masterpiece and I'm certain He would prefer they always be treated as such.

Answer 2

It's from whose point of view you're judging. Actually, noone's life is easy in this world - both men and women have to go through different tribulations in their life in this or that way. The common troubles are that everyone has to be born, become diseased, suffer from old age and ultimately die, then there are also disturbances from natural occurances (rain, snow,heat, cold, earthquakes etc), other living entities (both animals and humans), and our own mind! Women's psychology and body is designed in such a way that they cope with certain things better than men (rearing children, looking after household etc, in which most men would fail miserably, or would find it too stressful anyway), and men are better at some other things that women might find harder to do and boring too (accepting financial responsibility for the family, fixing a car or a TV set, ruling a society). Now, this is just a general statement, but there are details - like some men are really good at looking after their kids, and some women make great leaders and automechanics probably lol. But the general tendency is there, as it is simply in the nature of different genders. You know the famous book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" - we think differently, we adapt differently, we react differently, we act differently. So, the duties are also different, taylored according to our nature. Anything created by God is actually perfect, because He is perfect.

Answer 3

SHHHHH...not so loud, my wife will hear you! It's Saturday, and she's sleeping late, and if you wake her up she'll blame me. And then I'll have to sleep in the spare room again.
Let's see....I've done the laundry, fed the dog, made breakfast for the kids, and now I'm making her a nice brunch.
Am I "henpecked"??? No.... Marriage is a not always a 50/50 proposition. Sometimes it's 80/20...each one must be ready to put in a bit more work when necessary to support the other. Isn't that as it should be? Sometimes it's me, but it has been her just as often. When I got hurt a few years ago, she put on her jeans and got a job...but she and I both like it when she can be at home with our kids.
My wife takes care of our home and our children, she is a great cook and a wonderful mother, and she loves being a woman. She knows I love her and love to spoil her.

Answer 4

I would go into a spiel about how women like you need to walk a mile in a guy's shoes, but I can see that numerous other answerers have already done that. So, I think I can just back up what they have said and be done with it.

I really don't know where some of you women get the idea that my life is some kind of walk in the park just because I have a penis and a scrotum. I don't make assumptions about women based merely on their gender, and I appreciate the same treatment in return. And to be honest, I usually get it, because women like you are in the minority, it seems.

Answer 5

In a civilised society women's lives are easier. But civilised society is still a pet dream. this uncivilised (pretending to be civilised) society is very harsh. The impacts and frictions are too difficult for woman, man are made to rough out such hard life and provide a protected life to woman. Man feels superior. Women makes man feel that man is superior. The inferiority complex in women goes in favour of man. If a man does all the works assigned to a woman, he is laughed at as a sissy. Woman is satisfied to be a second class citizen. That's why.

Answer 6

Excuse me? Are you really that out of touch with reality?

Men and women have different societal pressures put on them, neither is more difficult than the other, they are just different.

An example:

We may not bleed for 8 days a month, but we are, more times than not, expected to be the sole provider for an entire family.

BTW how old are you? Because it seems to me that this is the kind of question that would be asked by a 16 year-old girl, who really doesn't have much life experience yet.

Answer 7

Who says their lives are harder or easier. There are lots of men who work hard days at work and still come home and mow the grass, do repairs, help with the kids, etc. Some households the women do work harder but it's kind of 50/50. Like my man does all the labor work around the house but still gets the kids up for school and makes them breakfast and gets them on the bus. He still manges to do some laundry and run the vacuum. He works very hard at work all day and then comes home and mows the grass and runs the weedeater, takes care of problems etc. I on the other hand get the kids off the bus, make dinner and clean up, take care of the house, do the laundry, etc., as well as work 60 hours a week but at a non-labor job (I get to sit). : ) Sounds 50/50 to me.

Answer 8

In the name of Allah the most gracious the most Merciful.
We learn in true Islam that God almighty created the Male and
the Female and put between them love and compassion for
each other.As a creation Man and Women are not egual,They
are different, Physically, Biologically, emotionally,Etc.God
created man to be physically stronger that the women because of his role as the head of the family being the bread
winner as a father as a brother and as a husband.The responsibility of providing for the family is His , The responsibility of taking care of The parents is his the responsibility towards society is His, the responsibility of
fighting to protect the honour of his family and his country is his.The burden of moving the masses is his.The country,The
society, and the family lay their burdens on the shoulder of
man.But God is fair and just and he made man to excel in
some ways and woman to excel in some ways.
The woman has been given the most important role and that is to be a loving Mother a caring sister and a dutiful wife.
Her job is to to teach the man how to love and to bring up the
best generation that she can.As a infant she is stronger than
the male ,as she grows up she becomes the apple of the eye
to her parents and she brings comfort to the eyes.Only a
father knows how much he is shattered when he puts the
hand of his daughter in the hands of another man.The women has to understand the role she is created for,It becomes difficult for her only when she abandons her true
role and sets out to compete with man in all aspects of life.
Allah the almighty is just and has asigned roles to the male
and the female to be played according to their capablities.

Answer 9

Just like the races, men and women take turns being in power on this world. This is of course so they can learn to use it "wisely". But it seldom happens, due to the selfish nature of the body.
Many of the struggles we go through today are karmic. Because of past mistakes. But we make choices in the
Here and Now as well.
Women will find their Power when they stop seeing themselves as victims in a mans world. And take their rightful place as co-contributers to a male and female world.

Answer 10

"Men were designed for short, nasty, brutal lives. Women are designed for long, miserable ones."
Estelle R. Ramey

Neither is easier, they are just different. Men have their own hardships, and most of them have no more control over their own lives than their women do. They too must cater to, manipulate and tolerate some next man up the line, just like many women feel oppressed in doing in their own homes. At least we have more choice in the man we must humor.

Eve was cursed to bear children in pain, and to be enslaved by her desire for her husband... Adam was cursed to sweat to get his bread from reluctant soil. They are equally difficult positions as they play out in life.