Should my 2,5yr relationship end here?

Question

Me and my grlfrnd have been goin out for 2,5yrs. at least every month we get into a fight over the most silly stuff. though i thought it wasnt a big deal, she always makeit big. then today when we were goin out in my car, there was this limpbizkit song that i liked, so i turned it up and sang along with the song. she told me to shut it. then i said why should i?! i mean, its my car, and i never told her to shut up when she sings(ok, i admit my voice isnt as good as hers). then all the way home she just keep quiet and ignores me totaly. so i knew, there was something wrong, so i askeed her whats the problem. and she just kept ignoring me. so i just went home. then on my way home, she text me and said that we shouldnt see each other again. then we had a big row, and insulting me on and on by text.

Can anyone see where the problem is? does anyone think this relationship is worth fighting for?

Answer 1

Move on. Get some singing lessons and a new girlfriend.

Answer 2

My fiance and I used to have the same type of thing happen between us. I am very frank when I speak and straight foreward and sometimes she takes things totally the wrong way when I tell her something and she gives me the quiet treatment. She was ready to leave once and I told her to go ahead and leave if you think that what I "supposedly" said was so bad to give up a 3 year relationship together on. I told her I'm just sorry that I wasted my time, money, and kisses on you all this time. So if you walk out that door right now you make sure that's what you want to do because we are through and she apologized and finally came to her senses. Tell it to her like that if she wants to throw away you and her 2.5 year relationship away for a silly arguement over a Limpbizcut song of all things then more power to her.

Answer 3

If you're fighting every month, over silly things, what does the future hold for you? She sounds immature to me, sulking and ignoring you. Is this what you want in a relationship? It's just plain rude to tell someone to 'shut it'! I'd let her have her way this one last time-tell her it's ok with you not to see each other again. There's someone else out there for you who'll treat you better. Good luck!

Answer 4

Silly question here for you... Do the arguements occur aournd the time she is due on her period? As you said alest once a month you argue. If it is then yes the relationship is worth saving. She might only argue when she isnt feeling to great. And is feeling a little fragile, and requires a little understanding.
If the answer to the question is no, then its time to move on before the arguements start becoming more regular.

hope that helps

Answer 5

I would tell you to shut up if you were singing a limp bizkitt song!!

But seriously,if the arguments are getting too frequent and you find you are not speaking anymore then take a break. If during that time your feelings for each other are still strong,then give it a chance. If not,then end it once and for all and move on

Answer 6

I think you both sound a bit daft, but I agree; I like singing in my car too...and I turn up the songs I like...but if my partner told me to shut up, I'd just laugh at him. I wouldn't say it's my car or anything like that; I'd go all polite and say, "aw, hon, have you a headache?"

I think she's playing mind games with her sulking; and it sounds like you are used to arguing with each other; maybe you both play mind games?
That's OK sometimes, but it can get to be a habit which no-one knows how to break. Honestly?
It doesn't sound like you have much love or respect for each other. It's horrible to be dumped by text, and cowardly too.Maybe she's been thinking about it for a while and was just looking for an excuse to do it?

Answer 7

If your constanly fighting over silly sh*** she needs to go she obviously wants someone submissive and not out spoken. So drop her so she can get that. You need someone who will love you all the way embrace your horrible singing and all. lol. she's not worth especially if she keeps insulting you. Dont insult back just ignore her women hate being ingored. She'll get over it and find some loser she can yell at all day!

Answer 8

My final courting ended because of the fact i found out that my ex (ok this could take awhile) A) replaced into cheating on me with each thing that moved at the same time with a 13 year previous, a 15 year previous, and a 17 year previous (the 17 year previous replaced into the female pal of one of my good friends he's 20 btw or replaced into at that component extremely). B) He replaced into bodily and mentally abusive and had me confident that i could no longer proceed to exist devoid of him, that all and sundry concept i replaced into gruesome, and that i could on no account discover every person that enjoyed me as much as he did. and C) i got here upon somebody extra appropriate, sweeter, and lots extra appropriate endowed and extra appropriate in mattress and that i fell in love with him, married him, and had his toddler.

Answer 9

If the arguments are only about once a month, then yes, it is definitely worth fighting for. When it becomes every day, more than once a day, then it is not worth it, in my opinion.

Answer 10

i am in a relationship for almost 3 yrs with a guy. we have the same situation but in my case I am like the girl you are talking about. I act that way to my boyfriend because whenever he does something i don't like, it made me feel like I am not important to him. my advice for you is talk to her in person and ask her what's wrong and try to explain to her about your actions. good luck!