Ok well my boyfriend will not quit saying I love you and I always tell him I love him to but why does he keep asking this. he is also saying stuff like I dont want to get hurt and are you planning on breaking up with me and do you see us lasting. what am I doing wrong if anything, is he insecure please help me!
2007-04-21 04:56:19 · 28 answers · asked by island gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me that he is very insucure about himself. Maybe you should try to boost his self esteem....Try telling him that You love him before he tells you. also give him compliments. I'm sure you feel great you you are complimented, he will feel the same. Just try to make him feel loved and special.
Good luck!
2007-04-21 05:01:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he's so insecure because he may has something on the past or he has a relationship that didn't love him, that's why he asking u all those questions. U are not doing nothing wrong just talk to him about all that.
Good Look!!!!
2007-04-21 05:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by Butterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. Well, I don't think you're doing anything wrong.
Plus, there is no problem of expressing each others' feelings every now and then.
But anyway, if you feel that he's being insecured (and you're the best one to realize that), then maybe always making him feel that you're there for granted would help him get over this feeling. Although, some people when they just feel their girls are gonna be there for granted, they start fooling around and stuff.. So, be careful.
You should just be a little bit secured yourself that you're not gonna lost him, so you wouldn't deliver this feeling for him. Be there for him, and he's gonna be fine.
Good luck :-)
2007-04-21 05:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by aMmOOooR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess that case is phsycologycal. He must be looking around many cases that are breaking up and so he must be feeling unsecure for the same. i think u shold take care of this. and if some time he starts asking u more then just says angryly that if he keep on asking this question then i may leave u some day.
2007-04-21 05:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by Paresh v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is insecure, explain that at this time you love him and have no plans to break up with him. Also no one can say forever and know that is true. He needs to learn trust and perhaps you two can talk that over also. Was he hurt really bad recenty?? .He may just be needy.
2007-04-21 04:58:46 · answer #5 · answered by edie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's very insecure. You're not doing anything wrong. He probably got hurt before and still has a fear of rejection. He's giving power to rejection by fearing it.
He needs to stop doing that because fear is the next step to fulfillment.
2007-04-21 05:03:29 · answer #6 · answered by FitChic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's the one who is insecure, and it's not you, unless you are doing things to provoke him like talking to other guys. If you feel you aren't, then all you can do is reassure him about your feelings, but he'll probably never be totally convinced of them. You have to decide if you want to keep "babying" him or find someone else who is more secure with himself. This behavior may never change, but you can try and help change him by being supportive and demonstrating your feelings towards him.
2007-04-21 05:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by monica_au04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok listen to me this is something I went through before with one of my ex boyfriends what you need to do is just one thing if you can not get him to sit down and have a serious talk with you telling you what is going on,Then you need to think about what you are going to do with him as of the relationship. let me know what happen please.I will not lie to you.and I do not play games when it comes to feelings.
2007-04-21 05:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by cream c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u need to give him a brk for sumtime as his insecurity is gonna ruin ur peace , also for a guy 2 b insecure is quite justified as he is feeling tht hes unable to blive u.U need 2 comfort him at this juncture ...........
2007-04-21 05:05:18 · answer #9 · answered by ecstaticenigmatic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to know the reason that he is insecure, so you can understand it, and accept it.
Maybe he has been hurt badly in the past, and you need to respect this and be gentle with him. He may get easily hurt.
2007-04-21 04:59:13 · answer #10 · answered by Lizi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋